The opinions posted here are my own, and based solely on my personal experience with homeschooling. While these may not be the "popular" opinions, they are mine. I am sharing them, specially for those who may be curious about homeschooling, who may be considering it, or who are just simply nosy. Because you know we all are a bit nosy.
Homeschooling is not "school at home". Not in this house at least. There are plenty of people who recreate a classroom environment at home. That's fine and dandy but it isn't for me and my crew. We do school at the dinner table, on the couch, in the bed, outside on lawn chairs.
We have a set number of assignments to do each day. We don't set timers, we don't have an alloted timeframe to do a subject each day. Does that mean they get to goof off all day? Of course not. It means if math is challenging, we work on it until we get it right. Can't get cursive quite right? Not a problem. We work for mastery, simple as that. Some days school goes smoother and we are done earlier than others. We don't "teach subjects" to the kids, we like to think we teach them to learn. I love to see the spark in my kids' eyes when we talk about a topic they like, and watch them find a book, or a documentary so they can learn more about it. That's what I've always dreamed of, sparking the love of learning.
I use secular curriculum. I can imagine many shaking their heads right about now. When we first started, I used a Christian curriculum and I didn't like it. It was filled with worksheets and my kids didn't respond well to that. I also didn't feel it broaden my children's view of the subject matter the way I want it.
Don't misunderstand me. I am not passing judgement on anyone who uses Christian materials. We all use what we believe to be best for our kids.
I wanted my kids to get the type of education I received as a kid. I grew up attending private catholic school, and it doesn't get any more conservative than that in my opinion. We prayed before each class period, we had mass once per week and attendance was mandatory. We had a chapel on campus and it was normal to spend a few minutes in silent prayer during recess.
But it was in this same school where I learned about evolution in science, and eastern religions in history. I want my kids to get the same broad understanding I received as a kid.
Does that make me less of a Christian? I don't think so. But I'm sure some will think so. I try not to worry about everyone's opinions when it comes to how I raise my family.
Oh here comes a biggie. It seems the million dollar question these days isn't about socialization of homeschool kids. It's about whether or not parents without a college education can homeschool their kids and do so effectively.
The question is, if you weren't good at math in school, how can you teach your kids math? or science? or english? and the list goes on.
Well, do you know if your kids' teacher in school was good at the subject they are teaching at school right now?
Let me be honest with you about my decision to homeschool. If my husband and I hadn't attended college, I wouldn't have ever considered homeschooling. Call me a chicken s***, but I would have been terrified to even attempt to do so. We may be on the minority here when it comes to our education level, and I don't know what the answer to the million dollar question is.
What I do know is there are thousands of resources out there to teach those subjects you didn't particularly like in school. Like biology in my case. There are co-ops where another soul braver than me can teach my kids how to dissect a frog, etc. There are online classes, and classes offered by retired teachers too.
I worry less about whether a homeschool parent has a college degree; and more about whether the kid is learning. That goes for kids who attend regular school too. Do parents need a college degree to help kids with the homework they bring home from school? Because, let's phase it, a lot of learning happens at home after the kids get home from school.
Neither of my parents went to college. I attended school and yes, I needed help with homework too. Here I am, many moons later, with both a bachelor and master degrees in engineering. I think they did a fine job helping with homework, and inspiring me to find the answers on my own.
You know, when you say "Oh I could NEVER do that", I don't believe you. You want to know why? Because I was THAT person who said I would never homeschool. Then I was phased with a crossroad and we had to consider it. When someone utters that phrase, I wonder if they are passing judgement. Do they think I don't love my kids as much as they do? Do they feel I took the "easy" way out?
People say "oh I don't know HOW you do it". I've been hearing that phrase since my twins were born. I don't know HOW I do it either, I just do. Because it has to be done. Because I love my kids and want what's best for them. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. That's how I tackle our homeschooling journey.
And while I'm at it, let me state this for the record. There is nothing wrong with my kids. We don't homeschool because they have "social" issues. They are well adjusted, fun, easy going, kids. They make friends easily, they are typical kids. There are no labels or diagnosis for any of them. Our decision to homeschool them had nothing to do with their ability to attend "regular" school. Don't ask me if they have (insert a label here) because you are bound to get a "look" and a reply you may not like.
Homeschooling isn't free by the way. We don't get anything from the school district we are in, at least not in this state. That means the cost of curriculum and school supplies is all on us. Paper, pencils, electricity, food, ink for the printer, internet? It is all paid by us. There is no "taxpayer" money funding my homeschool.
I could go on and on but I'll leave you with this. We all don't look the same, homeschool the same, or share the same educational philosophies. We all arrived at this decision from a different place. Some people do it for religious reasons, others because of the school district where they reside, others because they feel their kids are better served at home. I've found homeschoolers and regular people are very quick to assume all families arrived at the same place from the same location. Just as we are all different, so are homeschool families.
As for us, our kids are better served at home for now. What the future may bring, I do not know. Our kids are learning and thriving, and we are learning along with them. They have friends, they are happy, and so are we.
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Monday, August 10, 2015
Wednesday, February 18, 2015
Yes, you CAN!
It's that time of the year when homeschool moms start thinking about the upcoming year. Some already know what curricula they will use for their children. Then there are others like me, who have tried a few, and are now ready to settle in using a different one and praying this is the one that works for all parties involved.
I have been doing research, and had found the one curriculum I think will work wonderfully for my active boys. The one that will keep them interested in the lessons, and with plenty of hands on activities for them to enjoy (and burn some energy). I downloaded sample pages and the more I looked through them, the more I liked what I saw.
I really should have stopped then. I came across a post on a facebook group where someone mentioned this other curriculum, and then this other... Before I knew I was second guessing myself and the choice I thought I had already made.
Thing is, I never second guessed the education my children were getting when they were attending a brick and mortar school. I never asked to see the lesson plans, or the textbooks that would be used to educate them. I blindly trusted someone else, a stranger, to make those choices for me.
{Not trying to start a debate between school vs homeschool. This is just my personal observation, that affects solely the people I gave birth to. You do what you believe is best for your children. I am doing the best by mine.}
So here I was, on a late Saturday night, ready to pull my hair because I couldn't figure out which of three curriculum I was researching was the best one for the boys; and I couldn't really figure out what math would work best for my daughter.
In a moment of (rare) sanity, it came to me. I know my children best. I have watched them learn for two years at home; and I know what works for them, what gets them excited about learning, what helps thing go smoothly.
How the lessons are presented is just as important (to me) as the material that's being taught.
Why didn't I ever question the curricula the school chose for the kids? Maybe because I am a product of regular school. Maybe we are taught not to question those who educate us. I honestly don't know why I never did.
What I do know is I am quite capable of picking the curriculum that it's going to allow my kids to learn and still have fun doing it. I understand that sometimes they need to stand up and move around while I read to them, or that they need to burn some energy off in between their lessons.
I know that they are auditory learners, and what that means when it comes to how they learn.
I know my children and I CAN choose what works best for them to make their learning experience a happy one. I should trust my choice just as much (or more) as I did those choices that were made for me when they were attending school.
I have been doing research, and had found the one curriculum I think will work wonderfully for my active boys. The one that will keep them interested in the lessons, and with plenty of hands on activities for them to enjoy (and burn some energy). I downloaded sample pages and the more I looked through them, the more I liked what I saw.
I really should have stopped then. I came across a post on a facebook group where someone mentioned this other curriculum, and then this other... Before I knew I was second guessing myself and the choice I thought I had already made.
Thing is, I never second guessed the education my children were getting when they were attending a brick and mortar school. I never asked to see the lesson plans, or the textbooks that would be used to educate them. I blindly trusted someone else, a stranger, to make those choices for me.
{Not trying to start a debate between school vs homeschool. This is just my personal observation, that affects solely the people I gave birth to. You do what you believe is best for your children. I am doing the best by mine.}
So here I was, on a late Saturday night, ready to pull my hair because I couldn't figure out which of three curriculum I was researching was the best one for the boys; and I couldn't really figure out what math would work best for my daughter.
In a moment of (rare) sanity, it came to me. I know my children best. I have watched them learn for two years at home; and I know what works for them, what gets them excited about learning, what helps thing go smoothly.
How the lessons are presented is just as important (to me) as the material that's being taught.
Why didn't I ever question the curricula the school chose for the kids? Maybe because I am a product of regular school. Maybe we are taught not to question those who educate us. I honestly don't know why I never did.
What I do know is I am quite capable of picking the curriculum that it's going to allow my kids to learn and still have fun doing it. I understand that sometimes they need to stand up and move around while I read to them, or that they need to burn some energy off in between their lessons.
I know that they are auditory learners, and what that means when it comes to how they learn.
I know my children and I CAN choose what works best for them to make their learning experience a happy one. I should trust my choice just as much (or more) as I did those choices that were made for me when they were attending school.
Monday, August 25, 2014
3 weeks down, 33 more to go
So we have officially finished week 3 of this new school year. Things are going a lot better than last year, mostly in part to me being a lot more organized and definitely more relaxed about this whole homeschooling thing.
I decided to do a few things the "easier", less stubborn way this year. Instead of trying to customize a regular planner as my homeschool one, I purchased the Simple Plan by Mardel.
This planner is a lifesaver! It has enough room for me to plan for all 3 kids, to make notes about things going on that particular week, and a huge calendar at the beginning of the month to keep up with deadlines. (and yes, I do try to color code for each kid, but some times get all confused; and end up using pink for all 3, or blue, or whatever pen I have on my hand)
Each of the kids has their own planner to write down their assignment. I found them at Walmart; and while these are working fine for now, I may need to start researching some for next year that make the whole "writing down assignments" a bit more fun.
Have I mentioned how much I love the science curriculum we are using? I chose REAL Science Odyssey from Pandia Press this year. I chose the Life Science for the boys; and Biology 2 for the girl. We love it. For the boys, in addition to the curriculum material and the labs (two each week, fun!) we have used books from the library; Magic School bus videos; and Study Jams from Scholastic to supplement. My boys love science; so they will do as much as the day will allow. What I love most is they remember what they've learned.
I have a confession to make: I never liked Biology in high school. I took one semester, and when I had a choice, switched to Physics. It just wasn't my thing. So this year I'm learning as we go through Biology 2. It is very complete, and my girl does science every day. I love this curriculum because it includes 2 labs each week (one that uses a microscope); as well as a section on a famous scientist. Not only is she learning science, there is history also included.
The last two weeks we were working on cells; so the boys assignment was to make an animal cell model; while the oldest had to work on a model for an animal cell. So we decided we wanted to make our cells edible; because, well, why not?
The boys had to present on their cells as did my girl. As she was going over each part of the cell and its function, I remembered why I didn't like biology all those years ago. The funky names! Golgi apparatus??
Anyway the cake was delicious and she even made the buttercream frosting from scratch.
We obviously did more than just science in the last 3 weeks, but I think science is the most fun of all the subjects, don't you? I can't wait til we do chemistry!
I am very pleased with the curriculum I chose for this year. I think it's working out a lot better; it is a lot easier for me to keep up with where they are; and what we need to spend more time on.
I took advantage of the huge sale going on at Great Products and purchased shirts for my crew. They loved it. These three have embraced this homeschool adventure so I rewarded them with these shirts.
And I purchased this sticker for my car. Because every homeschooler I know has been asked the dreaded question "what about socialization?". Well, if you know me, you know this is my sense of humor.
We are doing a year round schedule this year, so we are on week 4 of 6 before we get our first break. I think we are going to love this new schedule. Who does not like having a week of vacation every 6 weeks? Our first week off will find us on the beach; as we are taking a much needed vacation.
Just two more weeks!
I decided to do a few things the "easier", less stubborn way this year. Instead of trying to customize a regular planner as my homeschool one, I purchased the Simple Plan by Mardel.
This planner is a lifesaver! It has enough room for me to plan for all 3 kids, to make notes about things going on that particular week, and a huge calendar at the beginning of the month to keep up with deadlines. (and yes, I do try to color code for each kid, but some times get all confused; and end up using pink for all 3, or blue, or whatever pen I have on my hand)
Each of the kids has their own planner to write down their assignment. I found them at Walmart; and while these are working fine for now, I may need to start researching some for next year that make the whole "writing down assignments" a bit more fun.
Have I mentioned how much I love the science curriculum we are using? I chose REAL Science Odyssey from Pandia Press this year. I chose the Life Science for the boys; and Biology 2 for the girl. We love it. For the boys, in addition to the curriculum material and the labs (two each week, fun!) we have used books from the library; Magic School bus videos; and Study Jams from Scholastic to supplement. My boys love science; so they will do as much as the day will allow. What I love most is they remember what they've learned.
I have a confession to make: I never liked Biology in high school. I took one semester, and when I had a choice, switched to Physics. It just wasn't my thing. So this year I'm learning as we go through Biology 2. It is very complete, and my girl does science every day. I love this curriculum because it includes 2 labs each week (one that uses a microscope); as well as a section on a famous scientist. Not only is she learning science, there is history also included.
The last two weeks we were working on cells; so the boys assignment was to make an animal cell model; while the oldest had to work on a model for an animal cell. So we decided we wanted to make our cells edible; because, well, why not?
The boys had to present on their cells as did my girl. As she was going over each part of the cell and its function, I remembered why I didn't like biology all those years ago. The funky names! Golgi apparatus??
Anyway the cake was delicious and she even made the buttercream frosting from scratch.
We obviously did more than just science in the last 3 weeks, but I think science is the most fun of all the subjects, don't you? I can't wait til we do chemistry!
I am very pleased with the curriculum I chose for this year. I think it's working out a lot better; it is a lot easier for me to keep up with where they are; and what we need to spend more time on.
I took advantage of the huge sale going on at Great Products and purchased shirts for my crew. They loved it. These three have embraced this homeschool adventure so I rewarded them with these shirts.
Just two more weeks!
Saturday, August 9, 2014
Working and homeschooling, our journey
We began our new year just last week. The kids did really well, and I think we are off to a great start. I'm excited to try the new year round schedule, where we school for 6 weeks then take 1 week off. Yes it is going to take us all into the summer; but summer is hot here and it's hard to plan activities when it's miserably steamy outside. So I'm excited to give this new arrangement a try.
Most people ask me "how can you work full time, and homeschool?" No, I'm not a superwoman, I have no special powers. I don't have a maid, or a laundry person. There are no babysitters ready to step in when we need a break. It's just my husband, myself, and the kids here.
Once we decided to homeschool, I searched all over cyberspace for blogs from moms who were in the same situation as I, and didn't find many. There are tons of posts out there about working from home and homeschooling; and I've learned a bit from them. But our situation is still very different.
I'm working full time outside of my house, in an office; while the schooling is taking place at my house. My husband works part time; and although it is from home, it isn't a desk job. He has to be outside to do his job, and we are thankful he has the flexibility to do most of the schooling.
So what is a mom who works full time away from home to do if she wants to homeschool? In my personal experience, you need a partner who is committed to making homeschool work. That person can be your husband, or your mom, or the babysitter who is going to watch the kids while you are at work. It takes more than one person, at least when the kids are small.
I've found I need to be super organized. I have to keep track of what all three of the kids are doing in school, since I do all the planning and recordkeeping. I have a planner solely for my homeschool lessons; another one solely for work. And I keep any appointments that need reminders on my phone. Would it be easier to keep one with everything? For someone it may be the case, but for me, I need to keep work and home separately.
The next one seems like a no brainer but supportive friends are one of the top 3 things I've needed. My friends have cheered me on from day one. Never questioned my ability to educate my children. They know me well enough to know I will do the best for my kids. There will be plenty of so called friends who will withdraw their friendship once the decision to homeschool is made public. But the good ones? Those will cheer you on and keep you sane. I'm blessed to have a group of women who, although none of them homeschools, they have been there, ready to hear me out and cheer me on.
I've also been lucky enough to find a great homeschool group. Families who are walking in this path, and who can offer support and tips on how to deal with situations unique to homeschool families. I have gotten some great insight from them, lots of tried and true tips on how to do this; and I'm just glad I found them early enough in this journey.
Aside from the people in your life, you are going to need great curricula. Do you need a college degree to homeschool? Not really. But you do need great material to make the whole process easier.
I have researched tons of different curricula, to find the ones that not only teach the kids what they will need but it is also easy to use for all of us.
That doesn't necessarily mean a "box" curriculum; or online one, or an accredited one. It means the one that works for you, and your kids. We use a mix of software, textbooks, and even e-books. I didn't chose a box set; I pieced mine together from different manufacturers to better suit the learning style of my kids.
Opinions in regards to homeschooling are like belly buttons. Everyone has one and everyone thinks they need to share theirs with you. You are going to need a thick skin if you choose to do this and still work full time. People have openly doubted my husband's ability to carry on his part of the schooling while I'm at work. To say I wasn't pleased would be an understatement. There will be others who will question your ability to do your job because you homeschool. Does anyone question the professionalism of homeschooling dads?
Then there is the whole socialization stigma. You know the one. People want to know how will the kids be socialized now that they don't attend school. I never sent my kids to school so they could have a social life. I did it to give them a good education, that was my priority. The same is true for my decision to homeschool. And in case anyone wonders, they get plenty of social time.
Can you homeschool and still work full time? Gosh I hope so because that's exactly what I'm doing. During the day I'm an engineer and a manager; but the minute I get home; I'm a homeschooling mom. We review lessons while I' m cooking, we sit at the table and talk about our days. We get our planners ready for the next day; work on any science experiments that go with the daily lesson; and we go to bed knowing the next day will be filled with still more adventures.
We make it work because we are committed to be successful. This is a marathon, not a sprint. So we will take it one week at a time.
Most people ask me "how can you work full time, and homeschool?" No, I'm not a superwoman, I have no special powers. I don't have a maid, or a laundry person. There are no babysitters ready to step in when we need a break. It's just my husband, myself, and the kids here.
Once we decided to homeschool, I searched all over cyberspace for blogs from moms who were in the same situation as I, and didn't find many. There are tons of posts out there about working from home and homeschooling; and I've learned a bit from them. But our situation is still very different.
I'm working full time outside of my house, in an office; while the schooling is taking place at my house. My husband works part time; and although it is from home, it isn't a desk job. He has to be outside to do his job, and we are thankful he has the flexibility to do most of the schooling.
So what is a mom who works full time away from home to do if she wants to homeschool? In my personal experience, you need a partner who is committed to making homeschool work. That person can be your husband, or your mom, or the babysitter who is going to watch the kids while you are at work. It takes more than one person, at least when the kids are small.
I've found I need to be super organized. I have to keep track of what all three of the kids are doing in school, since I do all the planning and recordkeeping. I have a planner solely for my homeschool lessons; another one solely for work. And I keep any appointments that need reminders on my phone. Would it be easier to keep one with everything? For someone it may be the case, but for me, I need to keep work and home separately.
The next one seems like a no brainer but supportive friends are one of the top 3 things I've needed. My friends have cheered me on from day one. Never questioned my ability to educate my children. They know me well enough to know I will do the best for my kids. There will be plenty of so called friends who will withdraw their friendship once the decision to homeschool is made public. But the good ones? Those will cheer you on and keep you sane. I'm blessed to have a group of women who, although none of them homeschools, they have been there, ready to hear me out and cheer me on.
I've also been lucky enough to find a great homeschool group. Families who are walking in this path, and who can offer support and tips on how to deal with situations unique to homeschool families. I have gotten some great insight from them, lots of tried and true tips on how to do this; and I'm just glad I found them early enough in this journey.
Aside from the people in your life, you are going to need great curricula. Do you need a college degree to homeschool? Not really. But you do need great material to make the whole process easier.
I have researched tons of different curricula, to find the ones that not only teach the kids what they will need but it is also easy to use for all of us.
That doesn't necessarily mean a "box" curriculum; or online one, or an accredited one. It means the one that works for you, and your kids. We use a mix of software, textbooks, and even e-books. I didn't chose a box set; I pieced mine together from different manufacturers to better suit the learning style of my kids.
Opinions in regards to homeschooling are like belly buttons. Everyone has one and everyone thinks they need to share theirs with you. You are going to need a thick skin if you choose to do this and still work full time. People have openly doubted my husband's ability to carry on his part of the schooling while I'm at work. To say I wasn't pleased would be an understatement. There will be others who will question your ability to do your job because you homeschool. Does anyone question the professionalism of homeschooling dads?
Then there is the whole socialization stigma. You know the one. People want to know how will the kids be socialized now that they don't attend school. I never sent my kids to school so they could have a social life. I did it to give them a good education, that was my priority. The same is true for my decision to homeschool. And in case anyone wonders, they get plenty of social time.
Can you homeschool and still work full time? Gosh I hope so because that's exactly what I'm doing. During the day I'm an engineer and a manager; but the minute I get home; I'm a homeschooling mom. We review lessons while I' m cooking, we sit at the table and talk about our days. We get our planners ready for the next day; work on any science experiments that go with the daily lesson; and we go to bed knowing the next day will be filled with still more adventures.
We make it work because we are committed to be successful. This is a marathon, not a sprint. So we will take it one week at a time.
Monday, August 4, 2014
New School Year has begun!
Buckle your seat belts, put your seats in the upright position, because this plane is taking off!
Today was our first official day of the 2014-2015 year. My house has officially a 7th grader and two 3rd graders. To say I'm a little overwhelmed is an understatement.
My day began quite early, because unlike the kids, I am an early riser. Not by choice, but necessity as I have to be at work early every day.
I made the kids a special breakfast since it was their first day: Cinnamon rolls. I wish I had taken a picture, but there wasn't time or any left for that matter.
The kids were eager to start, if only so they could get in their workboxes and dig out the snacks I had placed in there last night after they went to bed. We started our morning with a prayer and off we went.
The day was long, and it had its moments (meltdowns and tears) but overall we had a much better day than we did a year ago. We all know what to expect and we all know the work has to get done.
In a matter of hours, I realized how grateful I am that two of my kids are twins; because I honestly don't know how moms of more than 1 kid homeschool. Trying to figure out how to schedule time on the computer was the very first hurdle I encountered. No matter how well planned it was in my planner, one of the boys took his sweet time completing the assignment; while his sister waited to get started on hers.
I finally just sent my husband to buy a laptop because, well, we just need one. That made the rest of the day go a lot smoother. It allowed my daughter to do her school work without the constant "get off the computer, it's my turn" chant.
The twins received a reminder that their school work is their responsibility, not mine or their dad's. If they take all day; well they will have no free time. So use your time wisely. This year we are back to using agendas; so they have no excuse for not knowing what they are supposed to do.
We started with a lighter load this week; which I think made a huge difference today. We will add geography, art, and history next week, once we have a routine going. I really need to find an online curriculum for Spanish, because as much as I want to teach them at night, it's just not happening. Their time around me needs to be so they can practice their Spanish; not for lessons. Off to find something that will satisfy me.
My 7th grader will also be getting a lesson in time management this year. I have not scheduled her day as I did her brothers. I've given her assignments that need to be completed each day; and reminded her all has to be done; no exceptions. I'm here to guide her on how to manage her day but I want to see her try first. I won't always be there to do it for her; and I've seen my share of people in the real world who have zero time management skills in the workplace.
I'm cautiously optimistic that this year will go a lot smoother than last. We are doing a year round schedule so we have a lot of flexible time, for those times when life happens; or mom just needs a vacation.
Oh and I leave you with our newly redone study room aka dining room
Today was our first official day of the 2014-2015 year. My house has officially a 7th grader and two 3rd graders. To say I'm a little overwhelmed is an understatement.
My day began quite early, because unlike the kids, I am an early riser. Not by choice, but necessity as I have to be at work early every day.
I made the kids a special breakfast since it was their first day: Cinnamon rolls. I wish I had taken a picture, but there wasn't time or any left for that matter.
The kids were eager to start, if only so they could get in their workboxes and dig out the snacks I had placed in there last night after they went to bed. We started our morning with a prayer and off we went.
The day was long, and it had its moments (meltdowns and tears) but overall we had a much better day than we did a year ago. We all know what to expect and we all know the work has to get done.
In a matter of hours, I realized how grateful I am that two of my kids are twins; because I honestly don't know how moms of more than 1 kid homeschool. Trying to figure out how to schedule time on the computer was the very first hurdle I encountered. No matter how well planned it was in my planner, one of the boys took his sweet time completing the assignment; while his sister waited to get started on hers.
I finally just sent my husband to buy a laptop because, well, we just need one. That made the rest of the day go a lot smoother. It allowed my daughter to do her school work without the constant "get off the computer, it's my turn" chant.
The twins received a reminder that their school work is their responsibility, not mine or their dad's. If they take all day; well they will have no free time. So use your time wisely. This year we are back to using agendas; so they have no excuse for not knowing what they are supposed to do.
We started with a lighter load this week; which I think made a huge difference today. We will add geography, art, and history next week, once we have a routine going. I really need to find an online curriculum for Spanish, because as much as I want to teach them at night, it's just not happening. Their time around me needs to be so they can practice their Spanish; not for lessons. Off to find something that will satisfy me.
My 7th grader will also be getting a lesson in time management this year. I have not scheduled her day as I did her brothers. I've given her assignments that need to be completed each day; and reminded her all has to be done; no exceptions. I'm here to guide her on how to manage her day but I want to see her try first. I won't always be there to do it for her; and I've seen my share of people in the real world who have zero time management skills in the workplace.
I'm cautiously optimistic that this year will go a lot smoother than last. We are doing a year round schedule so we have a lot of flexible time, for those times when life happens; or mom just needs a vacation.
Oh and I leave you with our newly redone study room aka dining room
Friday, August 1, 2014
Let's get ready to rock! Getting ready for our 2nd year of Homeschool
Can you hear that grumble? That's the sound of my kids grumbling at the thought school is about to start. Why can't summer last forever?
All good things must come to an end and we are getting ready to begin our 2nd year of homeschooling. Wow. We actually survived our first one unscathed. All children are alive, dad didn't run away from home, and mom is still somewhat sane.
This year I have a 7th grader. Allow me to take a few moments to digest that information. I have a child who is a 7th grader. I am beginning to plan for high school and transcripts and college. When did all this happen?
As if having her entering 7th grade wasn't enough evidence of my aging, I also have 2 boys entering 3rd grade. They went to camp this summer, and came back in one piece (and with a few extra items of clothing in their bags!). No longer my tiny twin boys, they are proudly over 4 ft tall and growing every second.
Planning for this year was a lot easier. For starters, I ordered Cathy Duffy's 101 top picks for homeschool curriculum. This book was worth every penny. I read it cover to cover in a weekend. It helped me to narrow down the curriculum I wanted to further research.
After weeks of research, and research, and more research; I finally came up with the winners for our 2014-2015 school year.
Drumroll please....
Math:
Singapore Math-Standard edition. I know there are many great math curriculum out there but I love this one. The engineer in me can't help but love it. It actually makes the kids think through the math problems, set up simple equations, and I think it's a great foundation for Algebra, and higher maths. All 3 of the kids are using it. No complaints!
We also use Khan Academy to supplement. Not because the curriculum needs it but because my kids like the site, and earning points; and it gives them extra practice. Can't never have too much math.
History
Another one we kept this year. Story of the World Volume 2. I purchased the activity book this year, and I plan on adding more in depth projects for my 7th grader. I like that it is engaging for the boys, and they are enjoying learning about different civilizations.
Geography
This year I chose Trail Guide to World Geography. With 3 kids, I needed something that could be used for all 3 and this one can be as simple or as in depth as I want.
Spelling
I really had to think this one through. Last year we used Spelling City and while I liked it, the kids didn't care for it. Then we switched to workbooks, and that was just not their thing. Finally settled on Spelling Power. I love I can use it with all 3 kids, and also the placement tests. I know where to begin with each, and it's based on their knowledge and not a set school grade. The fact is a 15 min per day program makes it a winner in my book!
Grammar
Instead of using one language art curriculum as we did last year, I broke it into the other pieces. The all encompassing one was great for me, but the kids do better with separate ones. Editor-in-Chief, from the Critical Thinking Company, is what we are trying this year. They offer both workbooks and software, and they all wanted something they could do on the computer; so we chose the software.
Reading Comprehension
Again, Critical Thinking Company had what I was looking for. Reading Detective is what my 7th grader will be using. Considering the college entrance test include so much reading and comprehension; I want to go ahead and begin to get her ready. I chose not to purchase one of the 3rd graders yet. I am going to have them read books and then summarize them for me as part of their writing program; and later on move to a more structured format.
All 3 will be reading and keeping a log of books read. At least 2 each month for the little ones, one a month for the oldest since she will be reading bigger books.
Writing
So writing isn't one of those things that comes easy to my kids. Telling any of them to write a paper is asking for a lot of whining and complaining and ... you get the idea.
I came across the Writer's Jungle and had one of those aha moments. Here was a gentle way to get them started before purchasing one of the more rigorous programs. My focus this year is to get them writing, period. Yes there will be editing, and correcting grammar but specially for the younger ones, they need to just get used to writing.
Science
I am giddy just thinking about how much fun we are going to have this year. The boys will be using R.E.A.L. Science Odyssey: Life Science; while my girl will be using R.E.A.L. Science Biology 2. One thing all 3 had requested for this year was lots of hands on activities; and they wanted to do biology.
I'm a science girl, but biology wasn't my "thing". I was a chemistry/physics gal and even though I took biology and later biochemistry in college, I was nervous about it. Until I found this curriculum. It's all laid out for me and I'm sure I'm going to be loving biology by the time we get done.
Of course next year we are doing chemistry because it's my turn!
Typing
My oldest is going to use Typing Web this year. I like that it's free because I don't think she needs a whole lot, she already types. But she wanted a formal typing lesson, and who am I to argue?
Art
I am not artistic. I will do watercolor painting because it's relaxing and perfect for stress relief but I'm just not artistic. My kids are, which makes for an interesting combination.
Aside from letting them create masterpieces; we are going to study some artists; and expose them to good art with field trips. I enjoy museums so we go as often as time and funds allow.
Handwriting/Copywork
We are continuing copywork this year. Aside from using literature excerpts and exposing the kids to good writing, we need to get in the habit of writing before we begin cursive writing next semester. We haven't chosen a curriculum for cursive yet though.
Aside from all of this, two are continuing with their piano lessons, the other with his Han Mu Do (Korean Martial Arts); and my girl is still taking dance lessons. We are also doing soccer (one of the boys), and hopefully tennis. They also want to run 5k so my running shoes will be getting some mileage this fall.
I feel a lot more relaxed this year compared to last. I guess it's in part because I know what to expect. Also because we are going to homeschool year round so I don't feel like I have to accomplish everything in a short amount of time (as I felt last year).
Here is to a great new year!
All good things must come to an end and we are getting ready to begin our 2nd year of homeschooling. Wow. We actually survived our first one unscathed. All children are alive, dad didn't run away from home, and mom is still somewhat sane.
This year I have a 7th grader. Allow me to take a few moments to digest that information. I have a child who is a 7th grader. I am beginning to plan for high school and transcripts and college. When did all this happen?
As if having her entering 7th grade wasn't enough evidence of my aging, I also have 2 boys entering 3rd grade. They went to camp this summer, and came back in one piece (and with a few extra items of clothing in their bags!). No longer my tiny twin boys, they are proudly over 4 ft tall and growing every second.
Planning for this year was a lot easier. For starters, I ordered Cathy Duffy's 101 top picks for homeschool curriculum. This book was worth every penny. I read it cover to cover in a weekend. It helped me to narrow down the curriculum I wanted to further research.
After weeks of research, and research, and more research; I finally came up with the winners for our 2014-2015 school year.
Drumroll please....
Math:
Singapore Math-Standard edition. I know there are many great math curriculum out there but I love this one. The engineer in me can't help but love it. It actually makes the kids think through the math problems, set up simple equations, and I think it's a great foundation for Algebra, and higher maths. All 3 of the kids are using it. No complaints!
We also use Khan Academy to supplement. Not because the curriculum needs it but because my kids like the site, and earning points; and it gives them extra practice. Can't never have too much math.
History
Another one we kept this year. Story of the World Volume 2. I purchased the activity book this year, and I plan on adding more in depth projects for my 7th grader. I like that it is engaging for the boys, and they are enjoying learning about different civilizations.
Geography
This year I chose Trail Guide to World Geography. With 3 kids, I needed something that could be used for all 3 and this one can be as simple or as in depth as I want.
Spelling
I really had to think this one through. Last year we used Spelling City and while I liked it, the kids didn't care for it. Then we switched to workbooks, and that was just not their thing. Finally settled on Spelling Power. I love I can use it with all 3 kids, and also the placement tests. I know where to begin with each, and it's based on their knowledge and not a set school grade. The fact is a 15 min per day program makes it a winner in my book!
Grammar
Instead of using one language art curriculum as we did last year, I broke it into the other pieces. The all encompassing one was great for me, but the kids do better with separate ones. Editor-in-Chief, from the Critical Thinking Company, is what we are trying this year. They offer both workbooks and software, and they all wanted something they could do on the computer; so we chose the software.
Reading Comprehension
Again, Critical Thinking Company had what I was looking for. Reading Detective is what my 7th grader will be using. Considering the college entrance test include so much reading and comprehension; I want to go ahead and begin to get her ready. I chose not to purchase one of the 3rd graders yet. I am going to have them read books and then summarize them for me as part of their writing program; and later on move to a more structured format.
All 3 will be reading and keeping a log of books read. At least 2 each month for the little ones, one a month for the oldest since she will be reading bigger books.
Writing
So writing isn't one of those things that comes easy to my kids. Telling any of them to write a paper is asking for a lot of whining and complaining and ... you get the idea.
I came across the Writer's Jungle and had one of those aha moments. Here was a gentle way to get them started before purchasing one of the more rigorous programs. My focus this year is to get them writing, period. Yes there will be editing, and correcting grammar but specially for the younger ones, they need to just get used to writing.
Science
I am giddy just thinking about how much fun we are going to have this year. The boys will be using R.E.A.L. Science Odyssey: Life Science; while my girl will be using R.E.A.L. Science Biology 2. One thing all 3 had requested for this year was lots of hands on activities; and they wanted to do biology.
I'm a science girl, but biology wasn't my "thing". I was a chemistry/physics gal and even though I took biology and later biochemistry in college, I was nervous about it. Until I found this curriculum. It's all laid out for me and I'm sure I'm going to be loving biology by the time we get done.
Of course next year we are doing chemistry because it's my turn!
Typing
My oldest is going to use Typing Web this year. I like that it's free because I don't think she needs a whole lot, she already types. But she wanted a formal typing lesson, and who am I to argue?
Art
I am not artistic. I will do watercolor painting because it's relaxing and perfect for stress relief but I'm just not artistic. My kids are, which makes for an interesting combination.
Aside from letting them create masterpieces; we are going to study some artists; and expose them to good art with field trips. I enjoy museums so we go as often as time and funds allow.
Handwriting/Copywork
We are continuing copywork this year. Aside from using literature excerpts and exposing the kids to good writing, we need to get in the habit of writing before we begin cursive writing next semester. We haven't chosen a curriculum for cursive yet though.
Aside from all of this, two are continuing with their piano lessons, the other with his Han Mu Do (Korean Martial Arts); and my girl is still taking dance lessons. We are also doing soccer (one of the boys), and hopefully tennis. They also want to run 5k so my running shoes will be getting some mileage this fall.
I feel a lot more relaxed this year compared to last. I guess it's in part because I know what to expect. Also because we are going to homeschool year round so I don't feel like I have to accomplish everything in a short amount of time (as I felt last year).
Here is to a great new year!
Thursday, July 31, 2014
Things I've discovered after a year of homeschooling
Summer flew by and school is about to start once again. We are no longer "new" to homeschooling, our first year is behind us. So I thought I would list the things I have learned and encountered in the last year or so; about myself, my kids, and everyone else we know.
1) Homeschooling is NOT easy.
Some people believe homeschooling families choose this path out of laziness. The thought is laughable at best. All your household chores are still there, and now you have your child's education to focus on. You may never catch up with your sleep, your laundry, or the rest of the chores. There are field trips to be taken, lessons to be covered, and guess what? There are no sick days.
Kids don't play video games all day; and eat junk food while you watch soap operas. That's a myth.
2) Kids dread the first day of school, even those who are homeschooled.
This is a sentiment I cannot relate to because I loved school. Literally. I was the kid who could not sleep the night before due to the excitement. It wasn't about seeing my friends again; it was all about what I was going to learn.
I have heard my kids say "ugh, I'm not ready to start school again". They sound like any of the regular school kids, don't they? You know why they feel that way? See #1 above.
3) Just because you homeschool in your PJs, doesn't mean you are lazy or unable to function in the "normal" world.
Forgive me for a second here, because I'm about to vent and the following is MY personal opinion. You don't have to agree with it; but you don't get to badger me about it either.
On most days, the kids will do their work in their PJs. We are in our house and I don't want any more laundry than a household of 5 can produce. I don't make them get up and change clothes in order to do school work because we are NOT recreating school at home; we are homeschooling. There is a huge difference. If they want to change clothes, fine. If they don't, that's fine too.
My children function just fine in the "real world". The fact they do their work in their PJs doesn't hinder them from joining the "real" world. When it's time to join the rest of the human population, my kids know to dress appropriately. They understand that PJs are not acceptable attire for church, piano lessons, or museum trips.
I am still trying to figure out why anyone would think the attire you wear while doing schoolwork makes you a "better functioning" human. I see plenty of people dressed in professional attire every day who can't function in normal society. I rest my case.
4) How do I know what to teach, and how do I know my kids are learning?
Well how did I know that they were learning while in regular school? Truthfully, some things they weren't learning. They memorized it for a test; and it was out of their mind once the test was done. I know they are learning because my kids have taught my husband and I more about animals in the last year than we even realized they knew; just from watching educational shows about it. They have read more encyclopedias than most people do in a lifetime. They have a need to tell me all about something they read in a book at the library; and they are excited about exploring the backyard and looking for "new" species of bugs. That's how I know they are learning.
As to what to teach, how did I know my kids were learning what they were supposed to learn while in school? I honestly didn't, I just trusted the school. Well, I follow the same guidelines the schools do to make sure they learn what they need. Simple as that.
5) People from the "good school districts", who live in the nice subdivisions, homeschool too.
Most people know I live in a very crappy school district. My kids attended private school for a long time; and we now homeschool them. I hear often how I need to move to x,y,z town because the school is better; and you guessed it, the kids can go to school there.
Turns out there are families who live in the elite school districts who homeschool. So I am ok staying in the crappy district and homeschooling too.
6) All kids are not created equal.
Well duh. Everyone knows that, right? I knew my kids were different from each other from day one. What I didn't realize was how differently they learn. They process information in a way unique to them. While textbooks and worksheets work for one, the other needs a more auditory/visual environment. I don't force them to sit still at a table while we do school. Yes there are things that have to be done while sitting down, like writing for example. But they don't sit through every single lesson. Some lessons are on the computer, science experiments may take you outside into the woods or into the kitchen.
7) Dads can homeschool too
Here is a big one for us. When we made the decision to homeschool; the very first question people had was "are you going to quit your job?". Imagine the shock when I said no.
You don't have to stop working to homeschool, there are plenty of moms who work from home and outside the home who do it. I'm one of the lucky ones who has a husband who is willing to do most of the schooling while I'm in the office.
Most people seem shocked, some ask if I double check after him to make sure the kids are learning. When did we decide men can't teach? There are plenty of male teachers in schools right now; and all my professors in engineering school were males. So why the double standards?
8) Everyone is an expert about what you should be doing; specially those who have never homeschooled.
Everyone. I've been told what curriculum I should use, how I should teach; etc. By people who have never done it.
9) Everyone has a horror story about someone who homeschooled and did a horrible job.
I don't know every homeschooling family in the world. The ones I know are committed to providing the best education for their kids. Period. I'm sure there are lazy people out there who use the term homeschooling to allow the kids to run wild while they watch soap operas. And if you come across one of them, report them. That's not homeschooling. I'm not entirely sure what's the point of those stories.
10) I have my kids' best interest at heart.
Don't assume that I don't care about the future my kids will have because I homeschool. That's the reason I do it; because I want the best for them.
I know plenty of graduates from "good" schools who have done zero with their lives. Going to a regular school doesn't guarantee success in college or anywhere else.
Homeschooling is a journey. You will come across people who will support you and some who will do what they can to put you down. Just remind yourself of the reasons you made the decision and keep going.
Besides, why worry about what people say? You were made to be different.
1) Homeschooling is NOT easy.
Some people believe homeschooling families choose this path out of laziness. The thought is laughable at best. All your household chores are still there, and now you have your child's education to focus on. You may never catch up with your sleep, your laundry, or the rest of the chores. There are field trips to be taken, lessons to be covered, and guess what? There are no sick days.
Kids don't play video games all day; and eat junk food while you watch soap operas. That's a myth.
2) Kids dread the first day of school, even those who are homeschooled.
This is a sentiment I cannot relate to because I loved school. Literally. I was the kid who could not sleep the night before due to the excitement. It wasn't about seeing my friends again; it was all about what I was going to learn.
I have heard my kids say "ugh, I'm not ready to start school again". They sound like any of the regular school kids, don't they? You know why they feel that way? See #1 above.
3) Just because you homeschool in your PJs, doesn't mean you are lazy or unable to function in the "normal" world.
Forgive me for a second here, because I'm about to vent and the following is MY personal opinion. You don't have to agree with it; but you don't get to badger me about it either.
On most days, the kids will do their work in their PJs. We are in our house and I don't want any more laundry than a household of 5 can produce. I don't make them get up and change clothes in order to do school work because we are NOT recreating school at home; we are homeschooling. There is a huge difference. If they want to change clothes, fine. If they don't, that's fine too.
My children function just fine in the "real world". The fact they do their work in their PJs doesn't hinder them from joining the "real" world. When it's time to join the rest of the human population, my kids know to dress appropriately. They understand that PJs are not acceptable attire for church, piano lessons, or museum trips.
I am still trying to figure out why anyone would think the attire you wear while doing schoolwork makes you a "better functioning" human. I see plenty of people dressed in professional attire every day who can't function in normal society. I rest my case.
4) How do I know what to teach, and how do I know my kids are learning?
Well how did I know that they were learning while in regular school? Truthfully, some things they weren't learning. They memorized it for a test; and it was out of their mind once the test was done. I know they are learning because my kids have taught my husband and I more about animals in the last year than we even realized they knew; just from watching educational shows about it. They have read more encyclopedias than most people do in a lifetime. They have a need to tell me all about something they read in a book at the library; and they are excited about exploring the backyard and looking for "new" species of bugs. That's how I know they are learning.
As to what to teach, how did I know my kids were learning what they were supposed to learn while in school? I honestly didn't, I just trusted the school. Well, I follow the same guidelines the schools do to make sure they learn what they need. Simple as that.
5) People from the "good school districts", who live in the nice subdivisions, homeschool too.
Most people know I live in a very crappy school district. My kids attended private school for a long time; and we now homeschool them. I hear often how I need to move to x,y,z town because the school is better; and you guessed it, the kids can go to school there.
Turns out there are families who live in the elite school districts who homeschool. So I am ok staying in the crappy district and homeschooling too.
6) All kids are not created equal.
Well duh. Everyone knows that, right? I knew my kids were different from each other from day one. What I didn't realize was how differently they learn. They process information in a way unique to them. While textbooks and worksheets work for one, the other needs a more auditory/visual environment. I don't force them to sit still at a table while we do school. Yes there are things that have to be done while sitting down, like writing for example. But they don't sit through every single lesson. Some lessons are on the computer, science experiments may take you outside into the woods or into the kitchen.
7) Dads can homeschool too
Here is a big one for us. When we made the decision to homeschool; the very first question people had was "are you going to quit your job?". Imagine the shock when I said no.
You don't have to stop working to homeschool, there are plenty of moms who work from home and outside the home who do it. I'm one of the lucky ones who has a husband who is willing to do most of the schooling while I'm in the office.
Most people seem shocked, some ask if I double check after him to make sure the kids are learning. When did we decide men can't teach? There are plenty of male teachers in schools right now; and all my professors in engineering school were males. So why the double standards?
8) Everyone is an expert about what you should be doing; specially those who have never homeschooled.
Everyone. I've been told what curriculum I should use, how I should teach; etc. By people who have never done it.
9) Everyone has a horror story about someone who homeschooled and did a horrible job.
I don't know every homeschooling family in the world. The ones I know are committed to providing the best education for their kids. Period. I'm sure there are lazy people out there who use the term homeschooling to allow the kids to run wild while they watch soap operas. And if you come across one of them, report them. That's not homeschooling. I'm not entirely sure what's the point of those stories.
10) I have my kids' best interest at heart.
Don't assume that I don't care about the future my kids will have because I homeschool. That's the reason I do it; because I want the best for them.
I know plenty of graduates from "good" schools who have done zero with their lives. Going to a regular school doesn't guarantee success in college or anywhere else.
Homeschooling is a journey. You will come across people who will support you and some who will do what they can to put you down. Just remind yourself of the reasons you made the decision and keep going.
Besides, why worry about what people say? You were made to be different.
Monday, April 28, 2014
Mama said there be days like this...
Ever had one of those days when you feel you got it all under control : the laundry, housework, homeschool, work? Yeah, me either.
Just when I start to think "I've got this", that nagging voice creeps into my head and it says "no you don't!. You haven't (insert whatever I haven't done here).
Today was a state holiday so I didn't have to work. I've been home playing catch up with the laundry all day. I've lost count of how many loads I've managed to fold and put away. The size of the mountain has finally been reduced to a molehill.
A few months ago, I started reading about Charlotte Mason and her philosophy on educating the kids. I hadn't implemented anything yet, because I've been preoccupied with "finishing" the year. I'm not sure why I'm doing this to myself, when we have decided to do year round homeschooling. Maybe because I'm trying to drive myself crazy.
Anyway, back to CM and her philosophies. I've also been looking for a writing curriculum/program to get my oldest to write. I looked into Brave Writer and have started reading The Writer's Jungle . Today we started incorporating some of the things in the first chapters. I really like this book, because it nurtures the kids' natural desire to tell their stories.
So we did copywork today. Basically the kids get to copy paragraphs from real books, not textbooks. One is copying form 2,000 leagues under the sea; the other is copying from Robinson Crusoe; and the oldest is doing copywork from my one of my favorite books To Kill a Mockingbird.
It's a small step in the journey but it's a step. I was glad there was no complaining about doing this work! I'm going to assign reading from the same books; so they can start picking out the paragraph they want to copy.
We had plenty of whining when it was time for math. Why can't they do math without complaining? Must their torture their engineer mother like this? We got thru that with a few more gray hairs (mine) and tears (theirs).
Then I sent them outside to observe nature and writer about it in their nature journal. I was pleasantly surprised to see how much they wanted to write. I think we will definitely do this as often as the weather permits.
In history we are learning about India and the beginning of Hinduism. I have to admit, this really brings me back to my childhood. My father had books about Hinduism around the house and I recall reading about it as a kid. We discussed their main gods; watched a video and then talked about Ganesha (god of success, destroyer of obstacles) which I have tattooed on my leg; and also about Indra (king of the gods) because my youngest sister bears its name.
Still need to finish the workboxes; still need to put together the boys' science lesson plans for next year; get the Spanish curriculum, etc, etc, etc.
Thankful for a day at home to spend with the kids though; talking to them about some of the things I learned as kid.
Just when I start to think "I've got this", that nagging voice creeps into my head and it says "no you don't!. You haven't (insert whatever I haven't done here).
Today was a state holiday so I didn't have to work. I've been home playing catch up with the laundry all day. I've lost count of how many loads I've managed to fold and put away. The size of the mountain has finally been reduced to a molehill.
A few months ago, I started reading about Charlotte Mason and her philosophy on educating the kids. I hadn't implemented anything yet, because I've been preoccupied with "finishing" the year. I'm not sure why I'm doing this to myself, when we have decided to do year round homeschooling. Maybe because I'm trying to drive myself crazy.
Anyway, back to CM and her philosophies. I've also been looking for a writing curriculum/program to get my oldest to write. I looked into Brave Writer and have started reading The Writer's Jungle . Today we started incorporating some of the things in the first chapters. I really like this book, because it nurtures the kids' natural desire to tell their stories.
So we did copywork today. Basically the kids get to copy paragraphs from real books, not textbooks. One is copying form 2,000 leagues under the sea; the other is copying from Robinson Crusoe; and the oldest is doing copywork from my one of my favorite books To Kill a Mockingbird.
It's a small step in the journey but it's a step. I was glad there was no complaining about doing this work! I'm going to assign reading from the same books; so they can start picking out the paragraph they want to copy.
We had plenty of whining when it was time for math. Why can't they do math without complaining? Must their torture their engineer mother like this? We got thru that with a few more gray hairs (mine) and tears (theirs).
Then I sent them outside to observe nature and writer about it in their nature journal. I was pleasantly surprised to see how much they wanted to write. I think we will definitely do this as often as the weather permits.
In history we are learning about India and the beginning of Hinduism. I have to admit, this really brings me back to my childhood. My father had books about Hinduism around the house and I recall reading about it as a kid. We discussed their main gods; watched a video and then talked about Ganesha (god of success, destroyer of obstacles) which I have tattooed on my leg; and also about Indra (king of the gods) because my youngest sister bears its name.
Still need to finish the workboxes; still need to put together the boys' science lesson plans for next year; get the Spanish curriculum, etc, etc, etc.
Thankful for a day at home to spend with the kids though; talking to them about some of the things I learned as kid.
Friday, April 25, 2014
Chopsticks, Geocaching, Smithsonian Exhibit. Our week in review
This was an unusual week for us. By us, I mean me.
Husband just had a birthday last week. His birthday wish was a fishing trip, so I took time off from work while he went fishing. Or as we called it "teacher development days".
I had great plans for the two days I'd be home with the kids. We would get up early, have a big breakfast, get our school work done. You know, it all sounded possible and great. In theory. What I didn't anticipate was that I would be the one dragging herself out of bed at 8:30am. Ooops. I guess my body was trying to tell me it is ok to sleep passed my normal 5am wake up time.
On day one, there was lots of whining because, instead of going outside to explore, they had to do English. Oh the horror! Are they always this whiny? Husband says yes. I just don't know how he handles it daily, because, after 30 minutes, I had enough of the complaining. I think we are going to get a timer and see how that works. None of these assignments they are working on should take longer than 30 minutes.
But we did manage to do a lot of things in the two days we were home alone.
Spent time watching my karate kid do his thing in class. He is a natural. I'm convinced he has some Korean blood in him (probably from my father's side of the family) because he has taken to Han Mu Do as a fish to water!
I made some fried rice one night and the kids decided they wanted to learn how to use chopsticks. So they pulled them out and gave it a try. I tried to tell them it would be easier to learn if they had something like veggies or meat to grab rather than rice but they wanted to try. After a few minutes; everyone went back to the western utensils.
We also started geocaching. Until recently, I hadn't heard about it. I asked the kids if they wanted to give it a try, and off we went. I do think we need to involve dad in our adventures, because some of the caches may be in areas this city girl is hesitant to explore (ie any area where a snake may be).
After piano lessons, we went to the Smithsonian Traveling exhibit The way we worked. It was very informative, and the kids were surprised to learn, once upon a time, kids their age actually had jobs! Talk about realizing how spoiled they truly are.
I finally realized that creating my own homeschool planner probably wasn't going to work for me. As much as I wanted to do it, I wasn't really sure where to start, not to mention all that printing! So I order the Simple Plan by Mardel. I'm excited to start using it and have one location to keep up with all the kids are doing.
I also started working on their "workboxes". I didn't read the book. I found several ideas on Pinterest and decided to try and implement my own version. We really don't have room for individual boxes for each kid; so I just bought a big box with folders for each subject. I'm sure there will be tweaking involved to get them working for us, but isn't that what homeschooling is about? Adjusting and changing to suit our needs?
Planning and choosing curriculum is quite challenging. I thought laying it all out for my husband was the hardest part of homeschooling. I now realize, after staying home for a couple of days, how difficult it can be to implement it.
So, hats off to my husband, who stays home and tries to get the kids motivated every day to learn and do their work. Thank you!
Husband just had a birthday last week. His birthday wish was a fishing trip, so I took time off from work while he went fishing. Or as we called it "teacher development days".
I had great plans for the two days I'd be home with the kids. We would get up early, have a big breakfast, get our school work done. You know, it all sounded possible and great. In theory. What I didn't anticipate was that I would be the one dragging herself out of bed at 8:30am. Ooops. I guess my body was trying to tell me it is ok to sleep passed my normal 5am wake up time.
On day one, there was lots of whining because, instead of going outside to explore, they had to do English. Oh the horror! Are they always this whiny? Husband says yes. I just don't know how he handles it daily, because, after 30 minutes, I had enough of the complaining. I think we are going to get a timer and see how that works. None of these assignments they are working on should take longer than 30 minutes.
But we did manage to do a lot of things in the two days we were home alone.
Spent time watching my karate kid do his thing in class. He is a natural. I'm convinced he has some Korean blood in him (probably from my father's side of the family) because he has taken to Han Mu Do as a fish to water!
I made some fried rice one night and the kids decided they wanted to learn how to use chopsticks. So they pulled them out and gave it a try. I tried to tell them it would be easier to learn if they had something like veggies or meat to grab rather than rice but they wanted to try. After a few minutes; everyone went back to the western utensils.
We also started geocaching. Until recently, I hadn't heard about it. I asked the kids if they wanted to give it a try, and off we went. I do think we need to involve dad in our adventures, because some of the caches may be in areas this city girl is hesitant to explore (ie any area where a snake may be).
After piano lessons, we went to the Smithsonian Traveling exhibit The way we worked. It was very informative, and the kids were surprised to learn, once upon a time, kids their age actually had jobs! Talk about realizing how spoiled they truly are.
I finally realized that creating my own homeschool planner probably wasn't going to work for me. As much as I wanted to do it, I wasn't really sure where to start, not to mention all that printing! So I order the Simple Plan by Mardel. I'm excited to start using it and have one location to keep up with all the kids are doing.
I also started working on their "workboxes". I didn't read the book. I found several ideas on Pinterest and decided to try and implement my own version. We really don't have room for individual boxes for each kid; so I just bought a big box with folders for each subject. I'm sure there will be tweaking involved to get them working for us, but isn't that what homeschooling is about? Adjusting and changing to suit our needs?
Planning and choosing curriculum is quite challenging. I thought laying it all out for my husband was the hardest part of homeschooling. I now realize, after staying home for a couple of days, how difficult it can be to implement it.
So, hats off to my husband, who stays home and tries to get the kids motivated every day to learn and do their work. Thank you!
Tuesday, April 22, 2014
What I've learned this first year of homeschooling
Our first official "year" of homeschooling is fast approaching. I'm happy to report we have all survived; both C and I are still fairly sane (most of the time) and the kids are thriving and learning.
What have I learn during this year of homeschooling?
1) No two homeschooling families are alike
We all have different reasons why we chose this path. There is no "one size fits all"; and that's the best part about it.
2) Even when the boys are hanging upside down on the couch, they are listening
I used to believe, in order for learning to happen, kids needed to be sitting at a desk, attentively looking at the person teaching the lesson. A few months into our journey, I discovered this would never be the case at our house. Making them sit at the table for every single lesson was torture for them. Eventually we discovered they are actually listening when they are hanging upside, or playing with their cars on the floor. Their brains are like sponges and they are absorbing everything. And yes, I do ask questions just to make sure their brains haven't wander off into the land of gigantic spiders and Captain America.
3) My house will never be clean again
At least not while all three of the kids are still under my roof. There will always be books out of place, pencils will mysteriously disappear (only to be found in the craziest of places); and the laundry will multiply in a matter of seconds.
4) Learning just happens
While at the playground, one of the boys asked me if one of the ladders was shaped like the DNA strand. Did I mention this is the kid who likes to stand on his head? I was quite proud that my 7 year old announced to all the other parents he knew what DNA was and what it looked like.
5) Kids want to learn
We have been talking about the Greeks and the Romans in our history lessons. They were so eager to hear more about the Spartans, and the Gladiators. Even more so when I found a documentary about ancient Rome. Who knew kids would watch educational television without being forced?
6) Everyone has an opinion. Pay no attention
Everyone has an opinion about homeschooling; specially those closest to you. Listen to no one. You are doing what's best for you and your family. You have to please no one. Yes, their comments (no matter how well intended) will sting but keep reminding yourself you are responsible for your kids; and you know what's best for them.
7) There is no need to socialize the kids
This was the #1 question we received: what about socialization. Unless you are a hermit, you will encounter more people than just those under your roof. My kids make friends at the playground, at church, at the grocery store; anywhere they encounter another human. Their social calendar is busier than mine.
8) No curriculum will ever completely satisfy me
Don't get me wrong, there are some great resources out there. But even the best ones are going to require some adaptation. My kids are unique (as are everyone else's) so I may have to get creative in order to get the information to them in a manner they can process it and absorb it.
9) There are days you will wonder if your kids would be better served at school
Those days will come and will take you by surprise. I have doubted my decision, stayed up at night feeling like the worst mother in the world. But after the clouds have passed, the sky is always brighter. The kids will sit on the couch happily reading an encyclopedia; or they will be outside looking for bugs they can later match with the pictures in their bug book, or my daughter will be in the kitchen happily cooking. Then I realize they are fine; and this is where we need to be. Right in this moment.
10) My kids are amazing human beings
I watched my kids smile at the homeless man we encountered last weekend. They were worried he had no food; and that no one was stopping. We gave him some money; and they asked that we put together more "care bags" so next time we could give more. Their hearts are big and filled with love and compassion for other humans, regardless of their stage in life. I have been able to see their caring hearts at work more often now that our life has slowed down some and we can spend more time doing the things that count.
Linked to weirdunsocializedhomeschoolers
What have I learn during this year of homeschooling?
1) No two homeschooling families are alike
We all have different reasons why we chose this path. There is no "one size fits all"; and that's the best part about it.
2) Even when the boys are hanging upside down on the couch, they are listening
I used to believe, in order for learning to happen, kids needed to be sitting at a desk, attentively looking at the person teaching the lesson. A few months into our journey, I discovered this would never be the case at our house. Making them sit at the table for every single lesson was torture for them. Eventually we discovered they are actually listening when they are hanging upside, or playing with their cars on the floor. Their brains are like sponges and they are absorbing everything. And yes, I do ask questions just to make sure their brains haven't wander off into the land of gigantic spiders and Captain America.
3) My house will never be clean again
At least not while all three of the kids are still under my roof. There will always be books out of place, pencils will mysteriously disappear (only to be found in the craziest of places); and the laundry will multiply in a matter of seconds.
4) Learning just happens
While at the playground, one of the boys asked me if one of the ladders was shaped like the DNA strand. Did I mention this is the kid who likes to stand on his head? I was quite proud that my 7 year old announced to all the other parents he knew what DNA was and what it looked like.
5) Kids want to learn
We have been talking about the Greeks and the Romans in our history lessons. They were so eager to hear more about the Spartans, and the Gladiators. Even more so when I found a documentary about ancient Rome. Who knew kids would watch educational television without being forced?
6) Everyone has an opinion. Pay no attention
Everyone has an opinion about homeschooling; specially those closest to you. Listen to no one. You are doing what's best for you and your family. You have to please no one. Yes, their comments (no matter how well intended) will sting but keep reminding yourself you are responsible for your kids; and you know what's best for them.
7) There is no need to socialize the kids
This was the #1 question we received: what about socialization. Unless you are a hermit, you will encounter more people than just those under your roof. My kids make friends at the playground, at church, at the grocery store; anywhere they encounter another human. Their social calendar is busier than mine.
8) No curriculum will ever completely satisfy me
Don't get me wrong, there are some great resources out there. But even the best ones are going to require some adaptation. My kids are unique (as are everyone else's) so I may have to get creative in order to get the information to them in a manner they can process it and absorb it.
9) There are days you will wonder if your kids would be better served at school
Those days will come and will take you by surprise. I have doubted my decision, stayed up at night feeling like the worst mother in the world. But after the clouds have passed, the sky is always brighter. The kids will sit on the couch happily reading an encyclopedia; or they will be outside looking for bugs they can later match with the pictures in their bug book, or my daughter will be in the kitchen happily cooking. Then I realize they are fine; and this is where we need to be. Right in this moment.
10) My kids are amazing human beings
I watched my kids smile at the homeless man we encountered last weekend. They were worried he had no food; and that no one was stopping. We gave him some money; and they asked that we put together more "care bags" so next time we could give more. Their hearts are big and filled with love and compassion for other humans, regardless of their stage in life. I have been able to see their caring hearts at work more often now that our life has slowed down some and we can spend more time doing the things that count.
Linked to weirdunsocializedhomeschoolers
Saturday, February 22, 2014
Six months into our homeschooling journey
We've only been homeschooling for six months? Really? It seems like we've been doing this a lot longer.
I've been asked often how things are going for us. I'm never quite sure how to answer this. Do they really want to know about our struggles, are they hoping we'll answer something like "not going so well" so they can convince me I need to send the kids back to "real school"?
My answer is simply "things are going well" unless I'm talking to another homeschool mom and then I just feel the need to confess all of my worries and concerns. Notice I said "my worries".
Truth is, things are going better than I would have guessed. My family seems to have adapted to this new chapter in our lives a lot better than I. They have learned to do lessons in the car, to use Netflix documentaries to supplement curriculum; to research topics they like on their own, and to adjust learning times during full moons (when my boys seem to turn into banshees).
Me, on the other hand, I'm plagued with doubt every single week. Are they learning enough? Did I pick the right curriculum? Are they being motivated to learn? Are they retaining what they are learning? Are we doing enough? The list goes on and on.
It has been six months and I can now honestly say Homeschooling is not for the faint of heart. Unless you believe you are truly doing what's best for your family, it's best not to attempt this journey. Because you are going to have to remind yourself often that this is meant to be, and that no one, no school and no teacher, will ever love and understand your kids better than you.
In these six months, I've had to change some of the curriculum we had picked. I had read all about other families changing theirs, I was even told by some homeschool veterans that it happens. Naive as I was, I figured I would pick the right curriculum the first time and wouldn't have to change a thing. Go ahead, laugh.
The fact is my kids just hate some of the curriculum I chose. It is boring to them. It doesn't excite them, or inspire them to learn more. The twins asked me to please get them another science book because they were tired of coloring pages and boring books. They wanted to do experiments and collect bugs, and all the other things that are not on this 2nd grade book.
My husband has done a great job finding a way to do the lessons using what we have at hand. I didn't run off and buy more stuff because, well, I'm not made of money, and I wasn't sure what to buy this time around.
Mind you, I did my research. My husband will tell you how many countless hours I spent looking and researching and comparing before I chose this curriculum. I didn't want a boxed set, so I pieced together what I thought would be best for my kids. Turns out, I picked the curriculum with the correct content and the wrong delivery method.
Textbooks/worksheets/assignments/tests is how I was educated. One of my earliest memories of school comes from reading all my 1st grade textbooks before the first day of school (back in the school I attended in Panama, parents had to purchase the books). I couldn't wait for the day my parents went to buy the textbooks, so I could read them! So I ended up getting that type of material for my kids. Don't get me wrong, the curriculum is good, and very complete, but it's not for my kids.
So I'm starting over. I bought a book 101 Top Picks for Homeschool Curriculum. I probably should have invested in this book before we started but it's never too late. I finally figured out that my children learn very differently from me, so the curriculum I love and would thrive using would frustrate them beyond belief (lesson learned!).
Still, six months into this journey, I'm more confident in my decision to homeschool. I've watched my kids truly enjoy learning. We have stumbled, we have had moments when we wondered "what in the world have we done?", we have gotten on each others' nerves and wished we could just send them back to school so we could get a break.
But we have not regret it. We have watched our kids be happy, learning at home. We have become closer as a family. No more sitting at the table, while someone cries because they are exhausted and do not want to do any more homework. No more mom crying because the kids are crying and frustrated.
So we march on with the rest of this school year, doing the best we can with the materials we have; while I search and research for new materials for next year. And those new ones do not work; I won't feel like I've failed the kids. Because the beauty of homeschooling is we can make changes and adjust as we need to do. And as principal of this school, what I say usually goes.
I've been asked often how things are going for us. I'm never quite sure how to answer this. Do they really want to know about our struggles, are they hoping we'll answer something like "not going so well" so they can convince me I need to send the kids back to "real school"?
My answer is simply "things are going well" unless I'm talking to another homeschool mom and then I just feel the need to confess all of my worries and concerns. Notice I said "my worries".
Truth is, things are going better than I would have guessed. My family seems to have adapted to this new chapter in our lives a lot better than I. They have learned to do lessons in the car, to use Netflix documentaries to supplement curriculum; to research topics they like on their own, and to adjust learning times during full moons (when my boys seem to turn into banshees).
Me, on the other hand, I'm plagued with doubt every single week. Are they learning enough? Did I pick the right curriculum? Are they being motivated to learn? Are they retaining what they are learning? Are we doing enough? The list goes on and on.
It has been six months and I can now honestly say Homeschooling is not for the faint of heart. Unless you believe you are truly doing what's best for your family, it's best not to attempt this journey. Because you are going to have to remind yourself often that this is meant to be, and that no one, no school and no teacher, will ever love and understand your kids better than you.
In these six months, I've had to change some of the curriculum we had picked. I had read all about other families changing theirs, I was even told by some homeschool veterans that it happens. Naive as I was, I figured I would pick the right curriculum the first time and wouldn't have to change a thing. Go ahead, laugh.
The fact is my kids just hate some of the curriculum I chose. It is boring to them. It doesn't excite them, or inspire them to learn more. The twins asked me to please get them another science book because they were tired of coloring pages and boring books. They wanted to do experiments and collect bugs, and all the other things that are not on this 2nd grade book.
My husband has done a great job finding a way to do the lessons using what we have at hand. I didn't run off and buy more stuff because, well, I'm not made of money, and I wasn't sure what to buy this time around.
Mind you, I did my research. My husband will tell you how many countless hours I spent looking and researching and comparing before I chose this curriculum. I didn't want a boxed set, so I pieced together what I thought would be best for my kids. Turns out, I picked the curriculum with the correct content and the wrong delivery method.
Textbooks/worksheets/assignments/tests is how I was educated. One of my earliest memories of school comes from reading all my 1st grade textbooks before the first day of school (back in the school I attended in Panama, parents had to purchase the books). I couldn't wait for the day my parents went to buy the textbooks, so I could read them! So I ended up getting that type of material for my kids. Don't get me wrong, the curriculum is good, and very complete, but it's not for my kids.
So I'm starting over. I bought a book 101 Top Picks for Homeschool Curriculum. I probably should have invested in this book before we started but it's never too late. I finally figured out that my children learn very differently from me, so the curriculum I love and would thrive using would frustrate them beyond belief (lesson learned!).
Still, six months into this journey, I'm more confident in my decision to homeschool. I've watched my kids truly enjoy learning. We have stumbled, we have had moments when we wondered "what in the world have we done?", we have gotten on each others' nerves and wished we could just send them back to school so we could get a break.
But we have not regret it. We have watched our kids be happy, learning at home. We have become closer as a family. No more sitting at the table, while someone cries because they are exhausted and do not want to do any more homework. No more mom crying because the kids are crying and frustrated.
So we march on with the rest of this school year, doing the best we can with the materials we have; while I search and research for new materials for next year. And those new ones do not work; I won't feel like I've failed the kids. Because the beauty of homeschooling is we can make changes and adjust as we need to do. And as principal of this school, what I say usually goes.
Saturday, August 31, 2013
This is how we rock and roll!
It has been three weeks since we took this picture on our first day of homeschool. We have learned so much since then, and most of the lessons didn't come out of any of the books we are using.
We were called to homeschool. The circumstances that brought us here do not really matter, the fact is we were meant to do this. From the moment we became parents, homeschooling our kids was part of our lives' plan and we had no idea.
Our boys are thriving with the one on one attention they are receiving. They are happy as 7 year old boys should be. Last year while attending regular school, Cade had a lot of problems learning to read early in the year; while his brother was reading very well since kindergarten (thank you Mrs. C!). This caused lots of doubts and self esteem issues for Cade. We eventually got over that hump (after many nights reading and crying together) but his self esteem has taken longer to rebuild.
These past three weeks I have seen him blossom. His self esteem has come back in full once he realized he is as smart as his twin brother and so very good at math. Would he have reached his point in regular school? I'll never know for sure, but I'm glad to see he is learning more than just academics now. He is learning he was made to be great!
For Braden, last year was a struggle because of discipline. Academically he was doing wonderfully but he would finish his work early and would start to play. Or talk to someone else in class. We would get notes every other day about how he was "interrupting class" by playing, or talking. His grades were great, his behavior was the issue. He simply got bored waiting on the other kids to finish their work.
Needless to say, he no longer has to wait for anyone else. He can finish his work and move on to things that matter to a 7 yr old, like PE and looking for bugs outside. Even his handwriting (which was a huge issue for us last year) has improved considerably, just in three weeks of homeschool!
As for my sweet Candace, she has always been a great student. It has taken her (and me!) more time to get used to the more relaxed approach that comes with being homeschooled. The first thing I've noticed is her piano playing skills have improved tremendously. She is was a good player already, but now she has more time to practice, but most importantly, she wants to practice. I no longer have to remind her (over and over) to take time to practice.
She is also feeling more comfortable debating different subjects with me, and doesn't get flustered now when I ask her questions that are not in the textbook. She now goes and finds the answers and knows it is ok to know things that are not in the books.
My kids are learning from more than just books. They are watching documentaries and using their computer to find videos on the educational websites. They are going outside to explore and looking forward to field trips.
"For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord". I believe homeschool was part of that plan for our family.
Friday, August 23, 2013
We made it thru week 2!
We survived our second week of homeschooling without any casualties. No one has ran away from home in a screaming fit, no one has asked to go back to "regular school", no one has locked themselves in the bathroom and refused to come out. And that's just the adults!
The truth is, we have settled into this a lot easier than I anticipated. The kids are slowly finding their own rhythm. The twins have adjusted really well, they are ready and eager to get their work done in the morning so they can get to the important stuff, like PE lessons and terrorizing their sister. My girl is taking her time finding her rhythm. Slowly, she is taking more and more ownership of her school work; and feeling more and more confident about structuring her daily schedule.
Every day brings a lesson, at least in my opinion. So here are a few of the lessons/realizations/thoughts for our 2nd week of homeschooling. (Disclaimer: These are not all my own. My husband is the one who does the teaching, but he doesn't blog and many of these are his thoughts. The others are the kids, a few are mine. I'm simply the crazy lady with the laptop and a blog)
Starting every "school day" with a prayer makes it go easier. We are a Christian family. Even though we did not choose homeschooling for religious reasons, we are raising our kids in the ways of our faith. Every week, I write our weekly Bible verse and place it on our bulletin board. Every morning, my husband prays before everyone begins to tackle their assignments. Wednesday, he mentioned how well things were going, and said "Starting every day with a prayer really does help me get thru the lessons".
We are all teachers, even my husband. If anyone had told my husband he would one day homeschool his children, he probably would have called them crazy (among other things). I'm not sure anyone would expect my Harley ridding husband to have the patience to teach. Yet here he is, educating his children. And he is so good at it! He finds ways to engage them, and keep their interest, and even quiz them without them realizing it.
The cleaning fairy does exist. Really, she does. I'm not sure how it happened, but now that we are homeschooling, our house is cleaner than when the kids were attending regular school. Mind you, it is NOT spotless. There are still shoes they forget to pick up, and dishes they forget to take off the table. But I can actually see the floors! All the school books and notebooks are always in its place and I don't have to wonder where the pencils are when it's time to work on something. Maybe the kids like to have things in their place? Nah, I'm pretty sure the cleaning fairy is real.
The laundry fairy, however, does not exist. Laundry multiplies, no matter where your kids attend school. I had this idea that once we started to homeschool, the amount of laundry would diminished. I mean, the kids could do their school work in their pajamas. Rather than wearing 3 outfits each day (school clothes, home clothes, then pajamas); they would wear maybe 2. Nope, apparently my kids like to look their best no matter the occasion.
Kids are highly adaptable creatures. I have been amazed to see how easily they have become homeschoolers. I know every week won't be easy. I'm sure there will be whiny days, and sick days, and days we will all reconsider this choice. But the kids do understand that, even though we have a flexible schedule now, school work is still required. They don't need a classroom, a chalkboard, to understand that school work is important.
We are a team, all five of us. I knew we were a family. I married the boy, we had the kids, we became a family. But now we are a team. The success of our homeschool depends on all of us; not just the adults. The kids have taken their place on the team and are doing their part. Our girl will help dad with a lesson if the boys are just not "getting it" the way he is explain it. They don't fuss when she does, they simply listen to her. The boys do their assignments without issues, always ready to get done and move to the next thing. And my husband, the tough guy who many doubted could do this, is doing an amazing job at engaging and teaching the kids.
I'm doing my part too, I guess. I do the planning and make sure their weekly schedules are ready for them. As my friend Terri said, I'm just managing the team, they are doing the real work.
And they are doing a beautiful job.
The truth is, we have settled into this a lot easier than I anticipated. The kids are slowly finding their own rhythm. The twins have adjusted really well, they are ready and eager to get their work done in the morning so they can get to the important stuff, like PE lessons and terrorizing their sister. My girl is taking her time finding her rhythm. Slowly, she is taking more and more ownership of her school work; and feeling more and more confident about structuring her daily schedule.
Every day brings a lesson, at least in my opinion. So here are a few of the lessons/realizations/thoughts for our 2nd week of homeschooling. (Disclaimer: These are not all my own. My husband is the one who does the teaching, but he doesn't blog and many of these are his thoughts. The others are the kids, a few are mine. I'm simply the crazy lady with the laptop and a blog)
Starting every "school day" with a prayer makes it go easier. We are a Christian family. Even though we did not choose homeschooling for religious reasons, we are raising our kids in the ways of our faith. Every week, I write our weekly Bible verse and place it on our bulletin board. Every morning, my husband prays before everyone begins to tackle their assignments. Wednesday, he mentioned how well things were going, and said "Starting every day with a prayer really does help me get thru the lessons".
We are all teachers, even my husband. If anyone had told my husband he would one day homeschool his children, he probably would have called them crazy (among other things). I'm not sure anyone would expect my Harley ridding husband to have the patience to teach. Yet here he is, educating his children. And he is so good at it! He finds ways to engage them, and keep their interest, and even quiz them without them realizing it.
The cleaning fairy does exist. Really, she does. I'm not sure how it happened, but now that we are homeschooling, our house is cleaner than when the kids were attending regular school. Mind you, it is NOT spotless. There are still shoes they forget to pick up, and dishes they forget to take off the table. But I can actually see the floors! All the school books and notebooks are always in its place and I don't have to wonder where the pencils are when it's time to work on something. Maybe the kids like to have things in their place? Nah, I'm pretty sure the cleaning fairy is real.
The laundry fairy, however, does not exist. Laundry multiplies, no matter where your kids attend school. I had this idea that once we started to homeschool, the amount of laundry would diminished. I mean, the kids could do their school work in their pajamas. Rather than wearing 3 outfits each day (school clothes, home clothes, then pajamas); they would wear maybe 2. Nope, apparently my kids like to look their best no matter the occasion.
Kids are highly adaptable creatures. I have been amazed to see how easily they have become homeschoolers. I know every week won't be easy. I'm sure there will be whiny days, and sick days, and days we will all reconsider this choice. But the kids do understand that, even though we have a flexible schedule now, school work is still required. They don't need a classroom, a chalkboard, to understand that school work is important.
We are a team, all five of us. I knew we were a family. I married the boy, we had the kids, we became a family. But now we are a team. The success of our homeschool depends on all of us; not just the adults. The kids have taken their place on the team and are doing their part. Our girl will help dad with a lesson if the boys are just not "getting it" the way he is explain it. They don't fuss when she does, they simply listen to her. The boys do their assignments without issues, always ready to get done and move to the next thing. And my husband, the tough guy who many doubted could do this, is doing an amazing job at engaging and teaching the kids.
I'm doing my part too, I guess. I do the planning and make sure their weekly schedules are ready for them. As my friend Terri said, I'm just managing the team, they are doing the real work.
And they are doing a beautiful job.
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
For the love of Learning
I would be lying if I said I knew I wanted to homeschool the minute I held my daughter in my arms almost 12 years ago. How we came to this decision is a long story for another time.
As I did my research (have I mention how much I research stuff?), the more it seemed homeschool kids simply love to learn. That's not to say that children who attend regular school don't, I guess what I'm trying to say is there are more opportunities for homeschool kids to explore a topic they are interested in, research it, enjoy it. Again, not bashing schools or teachers. I attended private school, public school and I loved to learn and still do.
It is hard to explain what I mean when I say I want my kids to have a love of learning. As I was driving home the other day, a memory came to mind of my 6th grade science class. Yes, I can remember that far back. It was almost *gasp* 30 years ago but I still remember it. I think that memory summarizes what I wish all children, not just mine, would get to experience in a school setting.
My 6th grade teacher's name was Carmen de Esquivel. How impressed are you that I remember her full name? I surprise myself sometimes. She had a reputation for being very strict, so going into her class I had some apprehension. I remember our lesson on cloud formation, which was part of the whole unit about the water cycle. My science book had this pretty picture that depicted all these different shaped clouds, and the name scientists gave those clouds. We sat in the classroom and listened to the lesson, and tried not to stare out the window into the big blue sky.
Until Ms. Esquivel told us to line up by the door; and guide us outside. Into the playground area. And told us to look up at the clouds. If I close my eyes, I can still feel the sun on my skin, and the wind on my hair as I stood there looking at the clouds on the beautiful blue sky. She asked us the names for the different shaped clouds, and share some more information while we were seating outside on that playground.
I have never looked at the sky in the same way again. I'm sure that's not the only lesson that took place outside but that's the one I remember when I think about my love of learning. I want that for my kids. I want them to never look at anything the same way again. I want that one lesson to spark their curiosity and make them thirst for knowledge.
So yes, homeschooling affords me that opportunity. They can spend time learning about volcanoes, or Egyptians mummies; passed the allotted time they would have at school.
I know there are more teachers out there like Ms. Esquivel who try to spark that love of learning in the kids they teach. I'm thankful for her and for them.
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