I've been looking for ideas on topics to blog about. Truth be told, writing helps me deal with stress. So I blog because it is cheaper than therapy. Beer is cheaper too. ha!
Are you young at heart, or an old soul?
I'm an old soul. My sisters will tell you I was the most grown up 5 year old in the world. I've always been the responsible one. That's not to say I'm don't know how to have fun. But I'm most definitely an old soul.
What Christmas (or Hanukkah) present do you remember the most?
I remember several presents but one that I remember fondly was a green army Jeep. I must have been 4 or so at the time, and I asked for a Tonka Truck. Not a doll, not a doll house (I really didn't like dolls that much). I asked for a Tonka Truck. On Christmas morning I had a shiny Army green Tonka Jeep. I loved it! I think it was the first lesson my mom taught me about being myself. It was ok to be a girl that loved cars and didn't care for dolls. I was perfectly ok. That lesson has stayed with me forever.
If you could pick anywhere to live the rest of your life, where would it be?
If you know me well enough, this answer will not surprise you. I would moved back to Panama. I would buy a house in the mountains and live there, happily ever after. There is no place like home.
Where was your favorite place to go when you were a little kid?
My grandparents' house. That place held some many memories of wonderful summers spent with my cousins in the country. I remember the smell of gardenias early in the morning, as I helped my Abuela water her garden. The sound of the coffee grinder as Abuelo got the coffee ready in the morning. Abuela letting me help with breakfast. Helping Abuelo feed the chickens every morning. Watching my grandparents dance under the light of the kerosene lamp, that memory will remain with me forever.
If you go back to one point in time to give advice to yourself, when would you go and what would you say?
Just one point in time? Umm, I would say 18. I would tell myself "weigh all options. and do not be afraid".
When you were young, what would you dream you would be when you grew up?
At 7, I dreamed of being an astronaut. At 10 I wanted to be a lawyer. At 41, I'm still trying to figure out what to be when I grown up.
What part of the past year sticks out in your mind?
Turning 40. It marked the beginning of the rest of my life
You win a scratch-off lottery game that gives you $2000 a week (after taxes) for the rest of your life. Do you keep your job?
I would have to do the math first to make sure, but at first thought, YES! I would find another job doing something I'd love even if it paid less than my current job.
Have you ever met someone through the internet, then met them in real life?
Yes! These women have become some of my closest "imaginary" friends. They share the good days and the bad ones too. Life is better because I've met them.
What is your ethnic heritage?
The politically correct term is Hispanic. I don't use that term. I'm Latina, I'm Panamanian.
As far as I know, there is Spanish and native Indian blood running through my veins. I suspect there is Asian blood too, considering my children are often asked if they are Asian.
Are you hard-headed?
who, me? Absolutely not. ok, maybe a little. Ok, I am. Happy now?
What gets you out of bed in the morning
The dog. He is ready to eat as soon as the alarm goes off.
Do you want to live until you’re 100?
Yes. I want to see my kids get married and meet my grandkids
Give me the story of your life in six words.
Dreamer filled with passion and determination.
Thursday, April 23, 2015
Wednesday, April 22, 2015
Why I love a good book
I love books. In my dreams, I have a library as big as my house, filled with books, with a huge fireplace and comfy chair right next to it. And I spend endless hours there, immersed in the stories I find in the books.
Of course, reality is a different thing. I still love books, and I love the library. Last weekend, I ran to the library before it closed and decided to let a book find me. That's usually how I find the hidden gems that I wouldn't otherwise know about.
I circled the For Sale table several times before I saw it. It had that plastic wrapping that librarians put on books to preserve them. The moment I read the title I knew this was going home with me. The Family Under the Bridge . I'm not sure I had ever heard of that book but I knew this book would find a new home with us.
In case you don't remember, I have chronicled our adventures in reading before. Knowing my kids, I decided, when it came to this book, they would have to either read it, or listen to me read it. I let you guess which one they chose.
It wasn't without grumbling that they turned off the xBox and gathered on the bed for our reading time. They tried to convince me they would read it by themselves (yeah, right!) but I said no. I'm reading it to you, so listen up.
To say I love this book is an understatement. It wasn't until I read it that I realized it has won a Newberry Award and it is well deserved. The story is about a hobo (yes that's how he is referenced in the book), Armand, who finds a family of 3 kids and their mom living under the bridge that he calls home in Paris. The kids steal his heart, and by the end of the book, he and this family become family.
So many lessons wrapped in one little book. We looked up pictures of Notre Dame Cathedral and the gargoyles referenced in the book, we talked about the gypsies and learned more about their culture; and we talked about compassion.
This homeless man feels compassion towards these children who lost their father and their home. He takes them in, and watches over them while their mother works. He does his best to keep their family together, and in turn, becomes part of their family.
The book is about family, but not only those related by blood, but also those who stand by you and protect you when the times get rough.
When we finished the book last night, the boys said "wow, that was a really good book". And one of them even said "I'm so glad you read that book. I really liked it".
That's all the reassurance I need to continue to read to them no matter how old they get. They may grumble, they may complain. But once the story grabs them, and envelops them, they will lose themselves in the story and wish it would never end.
That's why I love books. How else could we travel to Paris at Christmas time, meet gypsies, and hang out with a hobo named Armand? Books are magical places, I pray my kids will soon discover that for themselves.
Of course, reality is a different thing. I still love books, and I love the library. Last weekend, I ran to the library before it closed and decided to let a book find me. That's usually how I find the hidden gems that I wouldn't otherwise know about.
I circled the For Sale table several times before I saw it. It had that plastic wrapping that librarians put on books to preserve them. The moment I read the title I knew this was going home with me. The Family Under the Bridge . I'm not sure I had ever heard of that book but I knew this book would find a new home with us.
In case you don't remember, I have chronicled our adventures in reading before. Knowing my kids, I decided, when it came to this book, they would have to either read it, or listen to me read it. I let you guess which one they chose.
It wasn't without grumbling that they turned off the xBox and gathered on the bed for our reading time. They tried to convince me they would read it by themselves (yeah, right!) but I said no. I'm reading it to you, so listen up.
To say I love this book is an understatement. It wasn't until I read it that I realized it has won a Newberry Award and it is well deserved. The story is about a hobo (yes that's how he is referenced in the book), Armand, who finds a family of 3 kids and their mom living under the bridge that he calls home in Paris. The kids steal his heart, and by the end of the book, he and this family become family.
So many lessons wrapped in one little book. We looked up pictures of Notre Dame Cathedral and the gargoyles referenced in the book, we talked about the gypsies and learned more about their culture; and we talked about compassion.
This homeless man feels compassion towards these children who lost their father and their home. He takes them in, and watches over them while their mother works. He does his best to keep their family together, and in turn, becomes part of their family.
The book is about family, but not only those related by blood, but also those who stand by you and protect you when the times get rough.
When we finished the book last night, the boys said "wow, that was a really good book". And one of them even said "I'm so glad you read that book. I really liked it".
That's all the reassurance I need to continue to read to them no matter how old they get. They may grumble, they may complain. But once the story grabs them, and envelops them, they will lose themselves in the story and wish it would never end.
That's why I love books. How else could we travel to Paris at Christmas time, meet gypsies, and hang out with a hobo named Armand? Books are magical places, I pray my kids will soon discover that for themselves.
Tuesday, April 21, 2015
Today I am me...
“Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.” Dr. Seuss.
I love Dr. Seuss. He had a way to explain things, didn't he?
I haven't gone on a trekk to see the Dalai Lama or the Pope or in some journey of self discovery. As life has been unraveling, I've come to realize that I am me. And Me is perfectly ok.
I'm a mother above all things. I love my kids with all that I am and all I have and I hope one day they will remember the things I do with them with fondness. I don't read parenting books, or blogs about parenting, or ask people how to handle a particular situation with my kids (unless it's people in my inner circle). It's not that I think I'm smarter, or better than any other parent. It's simply because I am unique as are my children as are all other parents in the world. So what may work for someone else doesn't necessarily works for me. I am who I am, and my kids are who they are so we will have to figure out our relationship as we go, without having other people's opinions influence it.
I'm also a working mother. Before anyone gets their feathers ruffled, I'm not implying moms who stay home don't work. I get up every morning, get dressed up, put on my stilettos and head to my office. I spend most of my days surrounded by other professionals, discussing things that would kill most people with boredom. And I often feel judged but the moms who chose to stay home with their kids, because I don't spend every waking hour with them. I bring my kids to work with me from time to time. They love telling people about my office, and how "cool" it is that I have this, or that in here. I think they are getting a chance to see that women can have a career and still be simply moms at the end of the day. One day my daughter will have to choose between staying home or having a career while simultaneously raising a family. Regardless of her choice, I'll know I raised a woman capable of making the best choice for herself and her family. Do I want her to follow my footsteps? No, because she is not me, her path will be her own.
I'm a homeschooling mother. I don't fit the stereotypical idea most people have of a homeschooling mom. I didn't chose this path for religious reasons, I chose this path because I believed it was the best choice for us. I still do. I homeschool off the beaten path, starting with my curriculum choices. I decided when we started that trying to recreate school at home wasn't going to work for us. I guess you can say we approach school our own way. I allow my kids to learn from videos and computers, and while running outside, and from encyclopedias. I don't think learning is restricted to textbooks and quizzes, so I allow my kids to narrate back to me what they learned rather than having to write it. Does that mean I think other families are wrong if they do use quizzes, and worksheets? No. You do what works for your family. It's that simple. Yet I see so much judgement between the homeschool community for those who do things "off the beaten path".
I volunteer my time. I'm sure there are some who think I should be spending more time with the kids rather than spending time doing charity work. But I believe in paying it forward. Spending time with a child who may have no one to encourage them or to say a kind word to them makes me realize just how blessed I am to have such an incredible support system of family and friends. I want my kids to grow up watching me pay it forward so one day they will do the same. Let's keep the kindness alive.
I am opinionated, and stubborn, and determined. I speak my mind, and yes, from time to time, I stick my foot in my mouth. I love fiercely and I defend myself and my own the same way. I don't conform to the norm, I don't want to be a cookie cutter version of someone else.
I often tell the kids they don't have to do what others kids do just because it's the "thing to do". Do what you feel it's right for you; not because Suzie Q. said it was what the cool kids are doing. And who decides who the cool kids are anyway? There is so much peer pressure out there for our kids. Starting with when girls are old enough to date and wear makeup, and get belly button rings, and the list goes on. I want my kids to be ok being who they are, not who their friends think they should be.
Always remember "there is no one alive who is youer than you". And that's good enough for me.
Wednesday, February 18, 2015
Yes, you CAN!
It's that time of the year when homeschool moms start thinking about the upcoming year. Some already know what curricula they will use for their children. Then there are others like me, who have tried a few, and are now ready to settle in using a different one and praying this is the one that works for all parties involved.
I have been doing research, and had found the one curriculum I think will work wonderfully for my active boys. The one that will keep them interested in the lessons, and with plenty of hands on activities for them to enjoy (and burn some energy). I downloaded sample pages and the more I looked through them, the more I liked what I saw.
I really should have stopped then. I came across a post on a facebook group where someone mentioned this other curriculum, and then this other... Before I knew I was second guessing myself and the choice I thought I had already made.
Thing is, I never second guessed the education my children were getting when they were attending a brick and mortar school. I never asked to see the lesson plans, or the textbooks that would be used to educate them. I blindly trusted someone else, a stranger, to make those choices for me.
{Not trying to start a debate between school vs homeschool. This is just my personal observation, that affects solely the people I gave birth to. You do what you believe is best for your children. I am doing the best by mine.}
So here I was, on a late Saturday night, ready to pull my hair because I couldn't figure out which of three curriculum I was researching was the best one for the boys; and I couldn't really figure out what math would work best for my daughter.
In a moment of (rare) sanity, it came to me. I know my children best. I have watched them learn for two years at home; and I know what works for them, what gets them excited about learning, what helps thing go smoothly.
How the lessons are presented is just as important (to me) as the material that's being taught.
Why didn't I ever question the curricula the school chose for the kids? Maybe because I am a product of regular school. Maybe we are taught not to question those who educate us. I honestly don't know why I never did.
What I do know is I am quite capable of picking the curriculum that it's going to allow my kids to learn and still have fun doing it. I understand that sometimes they need to stand up and move around while I read to them, or that they need to burn some energy off in between their lessons.
I know that they are auditory learners, and what that means when it comes to how they learn.
I know my children and I CAN choose what works best for them to make their learning experience a happy one. I should trust my choice just as much (or more) as I did those choices that were made for me when they were attending school.
I have been doing research, and had found the one curriculum I think will work wonderfully for my active boys. The one that will keep them interested in the lessons, and with plenty of hands on activities for them to enjoy (and burn some energy). I downloaded sample pages and the more I looked through them, the more I liked what I saw.
I really should have stopped then. I came across a post on a facebook group where someone mentioned this other curriculum, and then this other... Before I knew I was second guessing myself and the choice I thought I had already made.
Thing is, I never second guessed the education my children were getting when they were attending a brick and mortar school. I never asked to see the lesson plans, or the textbooks that would be used to educate them. I blindly trusted someone else, a stranger, to make those choices for me.
{Not trying to start a debate between school vs homeschool. This is just my personal observation, that affects solely the people I gave birth to. You do what you believe is best for your children. I am doing the best by mine.}
So here I was, on a late Saturday night, ready to pull my hair because I couldn't figure out which of three curriculum I was researching was the best one for the boys; and I couldn't really figure out what math would work best for my daughter.
In a moment of (rare) sanity, it came to me. I know my children best. I have watched them learn for two years at home; and I know what works for them, what gets them excited about learning, what helps thing go smoothly.
How the lessons are presented is just as important (to me) as the material that's being taught.
Why didn't I ever question the curricula the school chose for the kids? Maybe because I am a product of regular school. Maybe we are taught not to question those who educate us. I honestly don't know why I never did.
What I do know is I am quite capable of picking the curriculum that it's going to allow my kids to learn and still have fun doing it. I understand that sometimes they need to stand up and move around while I read to them, or that they need to burn some energy off in between their lessons.
I know that they are auditory learners, and what that means when it comes to how they learn.
I know my children and I CAN choose what works best for them to make their learning experience a happy one. I should trust my choice just as much (or more) as I did those choices that were made for me when they were attending school.
Friday, February 6, 2015
What every homeschooler needs, the other "S" word in homeschooling: SUPPORT
There is a dirty little S word among homeschoolers no one wants to hear. The dreaded "socialization". It is the first thing a family gets asked when the decision is made to homeschool and it seems to be the one thing non-homeschoolers worry the most about.
But this isn't about that dreaded word, this one is about what I believe every homeschool family needs: SUPPORT, specially from other homeschool families.
My family has been incredibly blessed to have found support even before we began this journey. I was lucky enough to know someone who, unbeknownst to me until then, homeschools. She offered her support, guidance, and when a group was being formed at her church, she invited me to join them.
For the last two years, we have joined the other families in this group for fun activities and field trips. Yes the kids get a chance to "socialize" but honestly, I think I get the most out of these opportunities. There is nothing as encouraging as talking to another parent about an issue you are facing and have them say "oh yeah we have gone through that too". We are all at different stages in our homeschool journey; and I've always received lots of support and encouragement when I've needed it.
You may be thinking, why do you need support? Don't homeschoolers want to be left alone, and be away from the general population? Isn't that why you took your kids out of school?
Well no, but that's a story for another time. If there is a family out there who homeschools to stay away from the rest of humanity, I obviously haven't encountered them. Because, you know, they are staying away from the rest of us.
Today some of our group got together to have a Valentine's Day party for the kids. I was reminded then how blessed I am to be part of a group that supports my journey, who makes us feel welcome, and who actually cares about us.
Why should you join a group if you homeschool?
1) Support.
Yes your family may be supportive, and your friends may be supportive. But unless your family has homeschooled and your friends are in the trenches with you, you still need the support of people who are traveling the same road.
On the days when the kids will not listen, when the laundry is piling up, and you are ready to flag the yellow bus down the next morning and ship them off to school, you need someone to remind you "this too shall pass".
2) Curriculum suggestions
We've only been doing this for two years, and we have changed curriculum several times. Not because they were not good but because they didn't work for my kids. So what do you do when you are in search of yet another one? You go to that group of parents who has traveled that same road and ask them for suggestions.
3) Resources
Looking for a used curriculum sale, suggestions on how to test your kid, or just a recommendation for a book/movie for you or the kids? Look no further.
4) Friendships
Sitting with someone and talking about parenthood always makes me feel normal. Really, it does. It helps me realize that my kids aren't as terrible as I think, they are just kids. When you sit to talk to a parent who homeschools, you already have something in common; and it gives you grounds to explore what other things you may both like.
5) It is fun
Whether you are in group that meets on a regular basis, or part of an online community, being part of a group is fun. You can laugh together at the frustrations that come with daily life, about the funny thing your kids did, or just hang out while the kids get to spend time doing that other S word, socialize.
So if you are considering homeschooling, make sure to find a group that can offer you more than just socialization for the kids. One that will offer you the support you need.
But this isn't about that dreaded word, this one is about what I believe every homeschool family needs: SUPPORT, specially from other homeschool families.
My family has been incredibly blessed to have found support even before we began this journey. I was lucky enough to know someone who, unbeknownst to me until then, homeschools. She offered her support, guidance, and when a group was being formed at her church, she invited me to join them.
For the last two years, we have joined the other families in this group for fun activities and field trips. Yes the kids get a chance to "socialize" but honestly, I think I get the most out of these opportunities. There is nothing as encouraging as talking to another parent about an issue you are facing and have them say "oh yeah we have gone through that too". We are all at different stages in our homeschool journey; and I've always received lots of support and encouragement when I've needed it.
You may be thinking, why do you need support? Don't homeschoolers want to be left alone, and be away from the general population? Isn't that why you took your kids out of school?
Well no, but that's a story for another time. If there is a family out there who homeschools to stay away from the rest of humanity, I obviously haven't encountered them. Because, you know, they are staying away from the rest of us.
Today some of our group got together to have a Valentine's Day party for the kids. I was reminded then how blessed I am to be part of a group that supports my journey, who makes us feel welcome, and who actually cares about us.
Why should you join a group if you homeschool?
1) Support.
Yes your family may be supportive, and your friends may be supportive. But unless your family has homeschooled and your friends are in the trenches with you, you still need the support of people who are traveling the same road.
On the days when the kids will not listen, when the laundry is piling up, and you are ready to flag the yellow bus down the next morning and ship them off to school, you need someone to remind you "this too shall pass".
2) Curriculum suggestions
We've only been doing this for two years, and we have changed curriculum several times. Not because they were not good but because they didn't work for my kids. So what do you do when you are in search of yet another one? You go to that group of parents who has traveled that same road and ask them for suggestions.
3) Resources
Looking for a used curriculum sale, suggestions on how to test your kid, or just a recommendation for a book/movie for you or the kids? Look no further.
4) Friendships
Sitting with someone and talking about parenthood always makes me feel normal. Really, it does. It helps me realize that my kids aren't as terrible as I think, they are just kids. When you sit to talk to a parent who homeschools, you already have something in common; and it gives you grounds to explore what other things you may both like.
5) It is fun
Whether you are in group that meets on a regular basis, or part of an online community, being part of a group is fun. You can laugh together at the frustrations that come with daily life, about the funny thing your kids did, or just hang out while the kids get to spend time doing that other S word, socialize.
So if you are considering homeschooling, make sure to find a group that can offer you more than just socialization for the kids. One that will offer you the support you need.
Thursday, February 5, 2015
Just call me Mr. Magoo
Does anyone remember the cartoon character Mr. Magoo? The bald, blind man who would run over everyone driving because he couldn't see?
Today I feel like him. You see, I forgot to make an appointment with the ophtalmologist for my annual exam. My contacts, which I'm only suppose to wear for 30 days before throwing them away, are now 30 days passed their expiration date; and the earliest appointment I could get is still 4 weeks away.
So at the risk of causing my eyes permanent damage, and rendering myself completely blind, I decided to wear my glasses.
You see, I have a love/hate relationship with them. I love the fact they allow me to see, but I don't really like to wear them. I guess it all goes back to being in high school and being called "nerd" because not only did I need glasses, I was sort of a nerd.
I see other women who look great wearing their glasses and think "I wish I could look like that with mine". I just can't pull off the look. I guess I've gotten so used to the reflection on the mirror that I don't recognize myself with glasses.
I put my contacts away last night (just in case); and wore my glasses to work today. Talk about trying to adjust! Everything looks weird, I spent half the morning feeling like I had too many tequila shots before work; and finally at lunch; I closed my door, took them off and allowed my eyes to rest for a bit.
Will I make it until my appointment? I really don't know. I'll give it a few more days and then we'll see what happens. In the meantime, just call me Mrs Magoo.
Today I feel like him. You see, I forgot to make an appointment with the ophtalmologist for my annual exam. My contacts, which I'm only suppose to wear for 30 days before throwing them away, are now 30 days passed their expiration date; and the earliest appointment I could get is still 4 weeks away.
So at the risk of causing my eyes permanent damage, and rendering myself completely blind, I decided to wear my glasses.
You see, I have a love/hate relationship with them. I love the fact they allow me to see, but I don't really like to wear them. I guess it all goes back to being in high school and being called "nerd" because not only did I need glasses, I was sort of a nerd.
I see other women who look great wearing their glasses and think "I wish I could look like that with mine". I just can't pull off the look. I guess I've gotten so used to the reflection on the mirror that I don't recognize myself with glasses.
I put my contacts away last night (just in case); and wore my glasses to work today. Talk about trying to adjust! Everything looks weird, I spent half the morning feeling like I had too many tequila shots before work; and finally at lunch; I closed my door, took them off and allowed my eyes to rest for a bit.
Will I make it until my appointment? I really don't know. I'll give it a few more days and then we'll see what happens. In the meantime, just call me Mrs Magoo.
Wednesday, February 4, 2015
Aslan who?? Family Reading Time. Sort of
Our homeschool adventure has gone through many changes in the past two years. It seems we (and by that I mean me) are always trying to find new ways to do things, adapting to new schedules, you get the idea.
After the holidays, I decided that my kids spent too much time in front of the tube. If asked, they would emphatically deny that statement but I know what I know. So a new rule was established: no TV during the week, and only allowed with permission on weekends.
Too harsh? Not in my book. I grew up in a household with no TV. On those days when I wasn't outside playing with the neighborhood kids; I would be sitting somewhere in the house with a book. I simply love books. I have been known for spending a weekend lost in a book and forgetting all about the laundry, the dishes, and eating takeout.
So cutting TV time was an experiment to get my kids to read more. Don't get me wrong, they do read. But I want them to love books as much as I do. My suggestion was met with several raised eyebrows, so I suggested we have "family reading time" at first; until we all got into the groove of things.
I chose to begin with The Chronicles of Narnia books. Kids have seen one of the movies, so it seemed like a perfect choice.
Picture this: a mom sitting on a chair with the children at her feet, attentively listening to every word she reads to them, with a roaring fire in the background.
That isn't quite the image we created. Ours looks something like this.
"Kids, it's reading time. Let's all gather on my bed". "Do we have to?? Can I read a different book?" "NO, I'm reading and you are listening. Now gather up".
Picture a mess of kids and a dog (gotta have the dog on the bed, he likes stories too) in one bed. I begin to read about Digory and Polly, and how Narnia was created when Aslan began singing...
"leave the dog alone!". "stop putting your feet on your brother!". "put your legs down, you are going to kick your sister on the face"
I continue on to how the wiser animals formed the council, how the Cabby and his wife became the first King and Queen of Narnia...
"why did he choose the Cabby?. "who made him King? "weren't you listening? mom just said Aslan did". "I wasn't asking you. Mom, would you answer my question?"
Sigh. There is no roaring fire, or perfect little kids gathered at my feet, eager to hear every word. But we are doing it. We are close to the end of the first book and will move on to the next one until we have read them all.
As a mom who spends 9 hours per day away from home, this is my quality time with the kids. There are nights we only get to read a couple of pages, and other nights when the kids want to take turns reading. They get to hear quality literature read to them and hopefully it will eventually spark in them a desire to read that will never go away.
Either way, we are not giving up on our reading time. Even when the dog is the most attentive of all the participants.
After the holidays, I decided that my kids spent too much time in front of the tube. If asked, they would emphatically deny that statement but I know what I know. So a new rule was established: no TV during the week, and only allowed with permission on weekends.
Too harsh? Not in my book. I grew up in a household with no TV. On those days when I wasn't outside playing with the neighborhood kids; I would be sitting somewhere in the house with a book. I simply love books. I have been known for spending a weekend lost in a book and forgetting all about the laundry, the dishes, and eating takeout.
So cutting TV time was an experiment to get my kids to read more. Don't get me wrong, they do read. But I want them to love books as much as I do. My suggestion was met with several raised eyebrows, so I suggested we have "family reading time" at first; until we all got into the groove of things.
I chose to begin with The Chronicles of Narnia books. Kids have seen one of the movies, so it seemed like a perfect choice.
Picture this: a mom sitting on a chair with the children at her feet, attentively listening to every word she reads to them, with a roaring fire in the background.
That isn't quite the image we created. Ours looks something like this.
"Kids, it's reading time. Let's all gather on my bed". "Do we have to?? Can I read a different book?" "NO, I'm reading and you are listening. Now gather up".
Picture a mess of kids and a dog (gotta have the dog on the bed, he likes stories too) in one bed. I begin to read about Digory and Polly, and how Narnia was created when Aslan began singing...
"leave the dog alone!". "stop putting your feet on your brother!". "put your legs down, you are going to kick your sister on the face"
I continue on to how the wiser animals formed the council, how the Cabby and his wife became the first King and Queen of Narnia...
"why did he choose the Cabby?. "who made him King? "weren't you listening? mom just said Aslan did". "I wasn't asking you. Mom, would you answer my question?"
Sigh. There is no roaring fire, or perfect little kids gathered at my feet, eager to hear every word. But we are doing it. We are close to the end of the first book and will move on to the next one until we have read them all.
As a mom who spends 9 hours per day away from home, this is my quality time with the kids. There are nights we only get to read a couple of pages, and other nights when the kids want to take turns reading. They get to hear quality literature read to them and hopefully it will eventually spark in them a desire to read that will never go away.
Either way, we are not giving up on our reading time. Even when the dog is the most attentive of all the participants.
Tuesday, February 3, 2015
What I've learned from my dog
Dog owners everywhere, unite! There is no greater joy than owning a dog, is there? They just make life better, don't they?
Back in October, we added Max to our family.
This little fur ball arrived at Casa Johnson in October. He was 4 weeks old and I just knew he was a keeper. There have been so many lessons learned since Max joined our family. We are a homeschooling family after all, we find lessons everywhere.
1) Potty Training a dog is very much like potty training toddlers. Most of the time they know what they are supposed to do, but it's a lot more fun to watch mom react to you going in the middle of the floor.
2) Bath time can be fun. Just delegate it to the kids and pray the house isn't flooded by the time the dog is clean.
3) Your kitchen counters are never high enough, specially if your dog is half Great Dane.
4) Having a sick dog is just as bad as having a sick kid. You will not sleep well, you will make yourself sick with worry; only to have the creature bounce back as if nothing ever happened. True story.
5) Your bed is their bed. And by their I mean the kids' and the dog's. That's where they all go to congregate. I have found the dog and kids all piled on the bed, pondering the laws of the universe. Or just watching TV.
6) The puppy stage doesn't last long when your "puppy" is part Great Dane. We have a dog that looks like an adult but still behaves as a puppy. Sometimes we have to remind ourselves he is still a baby.
7) There is no moment as precious as your family holding hands and praying together; including the dog. Kodak moment.
8) No one is as happy to see me after a long day at work as Max is. All he knows is "Mama is home"!
9) Need to let the stress melt away? Just climb in bed and let that big baby snuggle up to you. Pure bliss.
10) Dogs will steal your covers, your pillows, your food; and most importantly, your heart.
Our family is complete with Max. He is spoiled (and he knows it!); he is crazy at times (fits right in with the kids); and he has brought the joy we didn't know we were missing.
How can you not love a face like this one?
Back in October, we added Max to our family.
1) Potty Training a dog is very much like potty training toddlers. Most of the time they know what they are supposed to do, but it's a lot more fun to watch mom react to you going in the middle of the floor.
2) Bath time can be fun. Just delegate it to the kids and pray the house isn't flooded by the time the dog is clean.
3) Your kitchen counters are never high enough, specially if your dog is half Great Dane.
4) Having a sick dog is just as bad as having a sick kid. You will not sleep well, you will make yourself sick with worry; only to have the creature bounce back as if nothing ever happened. True story.
5) Your bed is their bed. And by their I mean the kids' and the dog's. That's where they all go to congregate. I have found the dog and kids all piled on the bed, pondering the laws of the universe. Or just watching TV.
6) The puppy stage doesn't last long when your "puppy" is part Great Dane. We have a dog that looks like an adult but still behaves as a puppy. Sometimes we have to remind ourselves he is still a baby.
7) There is no moment as precious as your family holding hands and praying together; including the dog. Kodak moment.
8) No one is as happy to see me after a long day at work as Max is. All he knows is "Mama is home"!
9) Need to let the stress melt away? Just climb in bed and let that big baby snuggle up to you. Pure bliss.
10) Dogs will steal your covers, your pillows, your food; and most importantly, your heart.
Our family is complete with Max. He is spoiled (and he knows it!); he is crazy at times (fits right in with the kids); and he has brought the joy we didn't know we were missing.
How can you not love a face like this one?
Monday, August 25, 2014
3 weeks down, 33 more to go
So we have officially finished week 3 of this new school year. Things are going a lot better than last year, mostly in part to me being a lot more organized and definitely more relaxed about this whole homeschooling thing.
I decided to do a few things the "easier", less stubborn way this year. Instead of trying to customize a regular planner as my homeschool one, I purchased the Simple Plan by Mardel.
This planner is a lifesaver! It has enough room for me to plan for all 3 kids, to make notes about things going on that particular week, and a huge calendar at the beginning of the month to keep up with deadlines. (and yes, I do try to color code for each kid, but some times get all confused; and end up using pink for all 3, or blue, or whatever pen I have on my hand)
Each of the kids has their own planner to write down their assignment. I found them at Walmart; and while these are working fine for now, I may need to start researching some for next year that make the whole "writing down assignments" a bit more fun.
Have I mentioned how much I love the science curriculum we are using? I chose REAL Science Odyssey from Pandia Press this year. I chose the Life Science for the boys; and Biology 2 for the girl. We love it. For the boys, in addition to the curriculum material and the labs (two each week, fun!) we have used books from the library; Magic School bus videos; and Study Jams from Scholastic to supplement. My boys love science; so they will do as much as the day will allow. What I love most is they remember what they've learned.
I have a confession to make: I never liked Biology in high school. I took one semester, and when I had a choice, switched to Physics. It just wasn't my thing. So this year I'm learning as we go through Biology 2. It is very complete, and my girl does science every day. I love this curriculum because it includes 2 labs each week (one that uses a microscope); as well as a section on a famous scientist. Not only is she learning science, there is history also included.
The last two weeks we were working on cells; so the boys assignment was to make an animal cell model; while the oldest had to work on a model for an animal cell. So we decided we wanted to make our cells edible; because, well, why not?
The boys had to present on their cells as did my girl. As she was going over each part of the cell and its function, I remembered why I didn't like biology all those years ago. The funky names! Golgi apparatus??
Anyway the cake was delicious and she even made the buttercream frosting from scratch.
We obviously did more than just science in the last 3 weeks, but I think science is the most fun of all the subjects, don't you? I can't wait til we do chemistry!
I am very pleased with the curriculum I chose for this year. I think it's working out a lot better; it is a lot easier for me to keep up with where they are; and what we need to spend more time on.
I took advantage of the huge sale going on at Great Products and purchased shirts for my crew. They loved it. These three have embraced this homeschool adventure so I rewarded them with these shirts.
And I purchased this sticker for my car. Because every homeschooler I know has been asked the dreaded question "what about socialization?". Well, if you know me, you know this is my sense of humor.
We are doing a year round schedule this year, so we are on week 4 of 6 before we get our first break. I think we are going to love this new schedule. Who does not like having a week of vacation every 6 weeks? Our first week off will find us on the beach; as we are taking a much needed vacation.
Just two more weeks!
I decided to do a few things the "easier", less stubborn way this year. Instead of trying to customize a regular planner as my homeschool one, I purchased the Simple Plan by Mardel.
This planner is a lifesaver! It has enough room for me to plan for all 3 kids, to make notes about things going on that particular week, and a huge calendar at the beginning of the month to keep up with deadlines. (and yes, I do try to color code for each kid, but some times get all confused; and end up using pink for all 3, or blue, or whatever pen I have on my hand)
Each of the kids has their own planner to write down their assignment. I found them at Walmart; and while these are working fine for now, I may need to start researching some for next year that make the whole "writing down assignments" a bit more fun.
Have I mentioned how much I love the science curriculum we are using? I chose REAL Science Odyssey from Pandia Press this year. I chose the Life Science for the boys; and Biology 2 for the girl. We love it. For the boys, in addition to the curriculum material and the labs (two each week, fun!) we have used books from the library; Magic School bus videos; and Study Jams from Scholastic to supplement. My boys love science; so they will do as much as the day will allow. What I love most is they remember what they've learned.
I have a confession to make: I never liked Biology in high school. I took one semester, and when I had a choice, switched to Physics. It just wasn't my thing. So this year I'm learning as we go through Biology 2. It is very complete, and my girl does science every day. I love this curriculum because it includes 2 labs each week (one that uses a microscope); as well as a section on a famous scientist. Not only is she learning science, there is history also included.
The last two weeks we were working on cells; so the boys assignment was to make an animal cell model; while the oldest had to work on a model for an animal cell. So we decided we wanted to make our cells edible; because, well, why not?
The boys had to present on their cells as did my girl. As she was going over each part of the cell and its function, I remembered why I didn't like biology all those years ago. The funky names! Golgi apparatus??
Anyway the cake was delicious and she even made the buttercream frosting from scratch.
We obviously did more than just science in the last 3 weeks, but I think science is the most fun of all the subjects, don't you? I can't wait til we do chemistry!
I am very pleased with the curriculum I chose for this year. I think it's working out a lot better; it is a lot easier for me to keep up with where they are; and what we need to spend more time on.
I took advantage of the huge sale going on at Great Products and purchased shirts for my crew. They loved it. These three have embraced this homeschool adventure so I rewarded them with these shirts.
Just two more weeks!
Saturday, August 9, 2014
Working and homeschooling, our journey
We began our new year just last week. The kids did really well, and I think we are off to a great start. I'm excited to try the new year round schedule, where we school for 6 weeks then take 1 week off. Yes it is going to take us all into the summer; but summer is hot here and it's hard to plan activities when it's miserably steamy outside. So I'm excited to give this new arrangement a try.
Most people ask me "how can you work full time, and homeschool?" No, I'm not a superwoman, I have no special powers. I don't have a maid, or a laundry person. There are no babysitters ready to step in when we need a break. It's just my husband, myself, and the kids here.
Once we decided to homeschool, I searched all over cyberspace for blogs from moms who were in the same situation as I, and didn't find many. There are tons of posts out there about working from home and homeschooling; and I've learned a bit from them. But our situation is still very different.
I'm working full time outside of my house, in an office; while the schooling is taking place at my house. My husband works part time; and although it is from home, it isn't a desk job. He has to be outside to do his job, and we are thankful he has the flexibility to do most of the schooling.
So what is a mom who works full time away from home to do if she wants to homeschool? In my personal experience, you need a partner who is committed to making homeschool work. That person can be your husband, or your mom, or the babysitter who is going to watch the kids while you are at work. It takes more than one person, at least when the kids are small.
I've found I need to be super organized. I have to keep track of what all three of the kids are doing in school, since I do all the planning and recordkeeping. I have a planner solely for my homeschool lessons; another one solely for work. And I keep any appointments that need reminders on my phone. Would it be easier to keep one with everything? For someone it may be the case, but for me, I need to keep work and home separately.
The next one seems like a no brainer but supportive friends are one of the top 3 things I've needed. My friends have cheered me on from day one. Never questioned my ability to educate my children. They know me well enough to know I will do the best for my kids. There will be plenty of so called friends who will withdraw their friendship once the decision to homeschool is made public. But the good ones? Those will cheer you on and keep you sane. I'm blessed to have a group of women who, although none of them homeschools, they have been there, ready to hear me out and cheer me on.
I've also been lucky enough to find a great homeschool group. Families who are walking in this path, and who can offer support and tips on how to deal with situations unique to homeschool families. I have gotten some great insight from them, lots of tried and true tips on how to do this; and I'm just glad I found them early enough in this journey.
Aside from the people in your life, you are going to need great curricula. Do you need a college degree to homeschool? Not really. But you do need great material to make the whole process easier.
I have researched tons of different curricula, to find the ones that not only teach the kids what they will need but it is also easy to use for all of us.
That doesn't necessarily mean a "box" curriculum; or online one, or an accredited one. It means the one that works for you, and your kids. We use a mix of software, textbooks, and even e-books. I didn't chose a box set; I pieced mine together from different manufacturers to better suit the learning style of my kids.
Opinions in regards to homeschooling are like belly buttons. Everyone has one and everyone thinks they need to share theirs with you. You are going to need a thick skin if you choose to do this and still work full time. People have openly doubted my husband's ability to carry on his part of the schooling while I'm at work. To say I wasn't pleased would be an understatement. There will be others who will question your ability to do your job because you homeschool. Does anyone question the professionalism of homeschooling dads?
Then there is the whole socialization stigma. You know the one. People want to know how will the kids be socialized now that they don't attend school. I never sent my kids to school so they could have a social life. I did it to give them a good education, that was my priority. The same is true for my decision to homeschool. And in case anyone wonders, they get plenty of social time.
Can you homeschool and still work full time? Gosh I hope so because that's exactly what I'm doing. During the day I'm an engineer and a manager; but the minute I get home; I'm a homeschooling mom. We review lessons while I' m cooking, we sit at the table and talk about our days. We get our planners ready for the next day; work on any science experiments that go with the daily lesson; and we go to bed knowing the next day will be filled with still more adventures.
We make it work because we are committed to be successful. This is a marathon, not a sprint. So we will take it one week at a time.
Most people ask me "how can you work full time, and homeschool?" No, I'm not a superwoman, I have no special powers. I don't have a maid, or a laundry person. There are no babysitters ready to step in when we need a break. It's just my husband, myself, and the kids here.
Once we decided to homeschool, I searched all over cyberspace for blogs from moms who were in the same situation as I, and didn't find many. There are tons of posts out there about working from home and homeschooling; and I've learned a bit from them. But our situation is still very different.
I'm working full time outside of my house, in an office; while the schooling is taking place at my house. My husband works part time; and although it is from home, it isn't a desk job. He has to be outside to do his job, and we are thankful he has the flexibility to do most of the schooling.
So what is a mom who works full time away from home to do if she wants to homeschool? In my personal experience, you need a partner who is committed to making homeschool work. That person can be your husband, or your mom, or the babysitter who is going to watch the kids while you are at work. It takes more than one person, at least when the kids are small.
I've found I need to be super organized. I have to keep track of what all three of the kids are doing in school, since I do all the planning and recordkeeping. I have a planner solely for my homeschool lessons; another one solely for work. And I keep any appointments that need reminders on my phone. Would it be easier to keep one with everything? For someone it may be the case, but for me, I need to keep work and home separately.
The next one seems like a no brainer but supportive friends are one of the top 3 things I've needed. My friends have cheered me on from day one. Never questioned my ability to educate my children. They know me well enough to know I will do the best for my kids. There will be plenty of so called friends who will withdraw their friendship once the decision to homeschool is made public. But the good ones? Those will cheer you on and keep you sane. I'm blessed to have a group of women who, although none of them homeschools, they have been there, ready to hear me out and cheer me on.
I've also been lucky enough to find a great homeschool group. Families who are walking in this path, and who can offer support and tips on how to deal with situations unique to homeschool families. I have gotten some great insight from them, lots of tried and true tips on how to do this; and I'm just glad I found them early enough in this journey.
Aside from the people in your life, you are going to need great curricula. Do you need a college degree to homeschool? Not really. But you do need great material to make the whole process easier.
I have researched tons of different curricula, to find the ones that not only teach the kids what they will need but it is also easy to use for all of us.
That doesn't necessarily mean a "box" curriculum; or online one, or an accredited one. It means the one that works for you, and your kids. We use a mix of software, textbooks, and even e-books. I didn't chose a box set; I pieced mine together from different manufacturers to better suit the learning style of my kids.
Opinions in regards to homeschooling are like belly buttons. Everyone has one and everyone thinks they need to share theirs with you. You are going to need a thick skin if you choose to do this and still work full time. People have openly doubted my husband's ability to carry on his part of the schooling while I'm at work. To say I wasn't pleased would be an understatement. There will be others who will question your ability to do your job because you homeschool. Does anyone question the professionalism of homeschooling dads?
Then there is the whole socialization stigma. You know the one. People want to know how will the kids be socialized now that they don't attend school. I never sent my kids to school so they could have a social life. I did it to give them a good education, that was my priority. The same is true for my decision to homeschool. And in case anyone wonders, they get plenty of social time.
Can you homeschool and still work full time? Gosh I hope so because that's exactly what I'm doing. During the day I'm an engineer and a manager; but the minute I get home; I'm a homeschooling mom. We review lessons while I' m cooking, we sit at the table and talk about our days. We get our planners ready for the next day; work on any science experiments that go with the daily lesson; and we go to bed knowing the next day will be filled with still more adventures.
We make it work because we are committed to be successful. This is a marathon, not a sprint. So we will take it one week at a time.
Monday, August 4, 2014
New School Year has begun!
Buckle your seat belts, put your seats in the upright position, because this plane is taking off!
Today was our first official day of the 2014-2015 year. My house has officially a 7th grader and two 3rd graders. To say I'm a little overwhelmed is an understatement.
My day began quite early, because unlike the kids, I am an early riser. Not by choice, but necessity as I have to be at work early every day.
I made the kids a special breakfast since it was their first day: Cinnamon rolls. I wish I had taken a picture, but there wasn't time or any left for that matter.
The kids were eager to start, if only so they could get in their workboxes and dig out the snacks I had placed in there last night after they went to bed. We started our morning with a prayer and off we went.
The day was long, and it had its moments (meltdowns and tears) but overall we had a much better day than we did a year ago. We all know what to expect and we all know the work has to get done.
In a matter of hours, I realized how grateful I am that two of my kids are twins; because I honestly don't know how moms of more than 1 kid homeschool. Trying to figure out how to schedule time on the computer was the very first hurdle I encountered. No matter how well planned it was in my planner, one of the boys took his sweet time completing the assignment; while his sister waited to get started on hers.
I finally just sent my husband to buy a laptop because, well, we just need one. That made the rest of the day go a lot smoother. It allowed my daughter to do her school work without the constant "get off the computer, it's my turn" chant.
The twins received a reminder that their school work is their responsibility, not mine or their dad's. If they take all day; well they will have no free time. So use your time wisely. This year we are back to using agendas; so they have no excuse for not knowing what they are supposed to do.
We started with a lighter load this week; which I think made a huge difference today. We will add geography, art, and history next week, once we have a routine going. I really need to find an online curriculum for Spanish, because as much as I want to teach them at night, it's just not happening. Their time around me needs to be so they can practice their Spanish; not for lessons. Off to find something that will satisfy me.
My 7th grader will also be getting a lesson in time management this year. I have not scheduled her day as I did her brothers. I've given her assignments that need to be completed each day; and reminded her all has to be done; no exceptions. I'm here to guide her on how to manage her day but I want to see her try first. I won't always be there to do it for her; and I've seen my share of people in the real world who have zero time management skills in the workplace.
I'm cautiously optimistic that this year will go a lot smoother than last. We are doing a year round schedule so we have a lot of flexible time, for those times when life happens; or mom just needs a vacation.
Oh and I leave you with our newly redone study room aka dining room
Today was our first official day of the 2014-2015 year. My house has officially a 7th grader and two 3rd graders. To say I'm a little overwhelmed is an understatement.
My day began quite early, because unlike the kids, I am an early riser. Not by choice, but necessity as I have to be at work early every day.
I made the kids a special breakfast since it was their first day: Cinnamon rolls. I wish I had taken a picture, but there wasn't time or any left for that matter.
The kids were eager to start, if only so they could get in their workboxes and dig out the snacks I had placed in there last night after they went to bed. We started our morning with a prayer and off we went.
The day was long, and it had its moments (meltdowns and tears) but overall we had a much better day than we did a year ago. We all know what to expect and we all know the work has to get done.
In a matter of hours, I realized how grateful I am that two of my kids are twins; because I honestly don't know how moms of more than 1 kid homeschool. Trying to figure out how to schedule time on the computer was the very first hurdle I encountered. No matter how well planned it was in my planner, one of the boys took his sweet time completing the assignment; while his sister waited to get started on hers.
I finally just sent my husband to buy a laptop because, well, we just need one. That made the rest of the day go a lot smoother. It allowed my daughter to do her school work without the constant "get off the computer, it's my turn" chant.
The twins received a reminder that their school work is their responsibility, not mine or their dad's. If they take all day; well they will have no free time. So use your time wisely. This year we are back to using agendas; so they have no excuse for not knowing what they are supposed to do.
We started with a lighter load this week; which I think made a huge difference today. We will add geography, art, and history next week, once we have a routine going. I really need to find an online curriculum for Spanish, because as much as I want to teach them at night, it's just not happening. Their time around me needs to be so they can practice their Spanish; not for lessons. Off to find something that will satisfy me.
My 7th grader will also be getting a lesson in time management this year. I have not scheduled her day as I did her brothers. I've given her assignments that need to be completed each day; and reminded her all has to be done; no exceptions. I'm here to guide her on how to manage her day but I want to see her try first. I won't always be there to do it for her; and I've seen my share of people in the real world who have zero time management skills in the workplace.
I'm cautiously optimistic that this year will go a lot smoother than last. We are doing a year round schedule so we have a lot of flexible time, for those times when life happens; or mom just needs a vacation.
Oh and I leave you with our newly redone study room aka dining room
Friday, August 1, 2014
Let's get ready to rock! Getting ready for our 2nd year of Homeschool
Can you hear that grumble? That's the sound of my kids grumbling at the thought school is about to start. Why can't summer last forever?
All good things must come to an end and we are getting ready to begin our 2nd year of homeschooling. Wow. We actually survived our first one unscathed. All children are alive, dad didn't run away from home, and mom is still somewhat sane.
This year I have a 7th grader. Allow me to take a few moments to digest that information. I have a child who is a 7th grader. I am beginning to plan for high school and transcripts and college. When did all this happen?
As if having her entering 7th grade wasn't enough evidence of my aging, I also have 2 boys entering 3rd grade. They went to camp this summer, and came back in one piece (and with a few extra items of clothing in their bags!). No longer my tiny twin boys, they are proudly over 4 ft tall and growing every second.
Planning for this year was a lot easier. For starters, I ordered Cathy Duffy's 101 top picks for homeschool curriculum. This book was worth every penny. I read it cover to cover in a weekend. It helped me to narrow down the curriculum I wanted to further research.
After weeks of research, and research, and more research; I finally came up with the winners for our 2014-2015 school year.
Drumroll please....
Math:
Singapore Math-Standard edition. I know there are many great math curriculum out there but I love this one. The engineer in me can't help but love it. It actually makes the kids think through the math problems, set up simple equations, and I think it's a great foundation for Algebra, and higher maths. All 3 of the kids are using it. No complaints!
We also use Khan Academy to supplement. Not because the curriculum needs it but because my kids like the site, and earning points; and it gives them extra practice. Can't never have too much math.
History
Another one we kept this year. Story of the World Volume 2. I purchased the activity book this year, and I plan on adding more in depth projects for my 7th grader. I like that it is engaging for the boys, and they are enjoying learning about different civilizations.
Geography
This year I chose Trail Guide to World Geography. With 3 kids, I needed something that could be used for all 3 and this one can be as simple or as in depth as I want.
Spelling
I really had to think this one through. Last year we used Spelling City and while I liked it, the kids didn't care for it. Then we switched to workbooks, and that was just not their thing. Finally settled on Spelling Power. I love I can use it with all 3 kids, and also the placement tests. I know where to begin with each, and it's based on their knowledge and not a set school grade. The fact is a 15 min per day program makes it a winner in my book!
Grammar
Instead of using one language art curriculum as we did last year, I broke it into the other pieces. The all encompassing one was great for me, but the kids do better with separate ones. Editor-in-Chief, from the Critical Thinking Company, is what we are trying this year. They offer both workbooks and software, and they all wanted something they could do on the computer; so we chose the software.
Reading Comprehension
Again, Critical Thinking Company had what I was looking for. Reading Detective is what my 7th grader will be using. Considering the college entrance test include so much reading and comprehension; I want to go ahead and begin to get her ready. I chose not to purchase one of the 3rd graders yet. I am going to have them read books and then summarize them for me as part of their writing program; and later on move to a more structured format.
All 3 will be reading and keeping a log of books read. At least 2 each month for the little ones, one a month for the oldest since she will be reading bigger books.
Writing
So writing isn't one of those things that comes easy to my kids. Telling any of them to write a paper is asking for a lot of whining and complaining and ... you get the idea.
I came across the Writer's Jungle and had one of those aha moments. Here was a gentle way to get them started before purchasing one of the more rigorous programs. My focus this year is to get them writing, period. Yes there will be editing, and correcting grammar but specially for the younger ones, they need to just get used to writing.
Science
I am giddy just thinking about how much fun we are going to have this year. The boys will be using R.E.A.L. Science Odyssey: Life Science; while my girl will be using R.E.A.L. Science Biology 2. One thing all 3 had requested for this year was lots of hands on activities; and they wanted to do biology.
I'm a science girl, but biology wasn't my "thing". I was a chemistry/physics gal and even though I took biology and later biochemistry in college, I was nervous about it. Until I found this curriculum. It's all laid out for me and I'm sure I'm going to be loving biology by the time we get done.
Of course next year we are doing chemistry because it's my turn!
Typing
My oldest is going to use Typing Web this year. I like that it's free because I don't think she needs a whole lot, she already types. But she wanted a formal typing lesson, and who am I to argue?
Art
I am not artistic. I will do watercolor painting because it's relaxing and perfect for stress relief but I'm just not artistic. My kids are, which makes for an interesting combination.
Aside from letting them create masterpieces; we are going to study some artists; and expose them to good art with field trips. I enjoy museums so we go as often as time and funds allow.
Handwriting/Copywork
We are continuing copywork this year. Aside from using literature excerpts and exposing the kids to good writing, we need to get in the habit of writing before we begin cursive writing next semester. We haven't chosen a curriculum for cursive yet though.
Aside from all of this, two are continuing with their piano lessons, the other with his Han Mu Do (Korean Martial Arts); and my girl is still taking dance lessons. We are also doing soccer (one of the boys), and hopefully tennis. They also want to run 5k so my running shoes will be getting some mileage this fall.
I feel a lot more relaxed this year compared to last. I guess it's in part because I know what to expect. Also because we are going to homeschool year round so I don't feel like I have to accomplish everything in a short amount of time (as I felt last year).
Here is to a great new year!
All good things must come to an end and we are getting ready to begin our 2nd year of homeschooling. Wow. We actually survived our first one unscathed. All children are alive, dad didn't run away from home, and mom is still somewhat sane.
This year I have a 7th grader. Allow me to take a few moments to digest that information. I have a child who is a 7th grader. I am beginning to plan for high school and transcripts and college. When did all this happen?
As if having her entering 7th grade wasn't enough evidence of my aging, I also have 2 boys entering 3rd grade. They went to camp this summer, and came back in one piece (and with a few extra items of clothing in their bags!). No longer my tiny twin boys, they are proudly over 4 ft tall and growing every second.
Planning for this year was a lot easier. For starters, I ordered Cathy Duffy's 101 top picks for homeschool curriculum. This book was worth every penny. I read it cover to cover in a weekend. It helped me to narrow down the curriculum I wanted to further research.
After weeks of research, and research, and more research; I finally came up with the winners for our 2014-2015 school year.
Drumroll please....
Math:
Singapore Math-Standard edition. I know there are many great math curriculum out there but I love this one. The engineer in me can't help but love it. It actually makes the kids think through the math problems, set up simple equations, and I think it's a great foundation for Algebra, and higher maths. All 3 of the kids are using it. No complaints!
We also use Khan Academy to supplement. Not because the curriculum needs it but because my kids like the site, and earning points; and it gives them extra practice. Can't never have too much math.
History
Another one we kept this year. Story of the World Volume 2. I purchased the activity book this year, and I plan on adding more in depth projects for my 7th grader. I like that it is engaging for the boys, and they are enjoying learning about different civilizations.
Geography
This year I chose Trail Guide to World Geography. With 3 kids, I needed something that could be used for all 3 and this one can be as simple or as in depth as I want.
Spelling
I really had to think this one through. Last year we used Spelling City and while I liked it, the kids didn't care for it. Then we switched to workbooks, and that was just not their thing. Finally settled on Spelling Power. I love I can use it with all 3 kids, and also the placement tests. I know where to begin with each, and it's based on their knowledge and not a set school grade. The fact is a 15 min per day program makes it a winner in my book!
Grammar
Instead of using one language art curriculum as we did last year, I broke it into the other pieces. The all encompassing one was great for me, but the kids do better with separate ones. Editor-in-Chief, from the Critical Thinking Company, is what we are trying this year. They offer both workbooks and software, and they all wanted something they could do on the computer; so we chose the software.
Reading Comprehension
Again, Critical Thinking Company had what I was looking for. Reading Detective is what my 7th grader will be using. Considering the college entrance test include so much reading and comprehension; I want to go ahead and begin to get her ready. I chose not to purchase one of the 3rd graders yet. I am going to have them read books and then summarize them for me as part of their writing program; and later on move to a more structured format.
All 3 will be reading and keeping a log of books read. At least 2 each month for the little ones, one a month for the oldest since she will be reading bigger books.
Writing
So writing isn't one of those things that comes easy to my kids. Telling any of them to write a paper is asking for a lot of whining and complaining and ... you get the idea.
I came across the Writer's Jungle and had one of those aha moments. Here was a gentle way to get them started before purchasing one of the more rigorous programs. My focus this year is to get them writing, period. Yes there will be editing, and correcting grammar but specially for the younger ones, they need to just get used to writing.
Science
I am giddy just thinking about how much fun we are going to have this year. The boys will be using R.E.A.L. Science Odyssey: Life Science; while my girl will be using R.E.A.L. Science Biology 2. One thing all 3 had requested for this year was lots of hands on activities; and they wanted to do biology.
I'm a science girl, but biology wasn't my "thing". I was a chemistry/physics gal and even though I took biology and later biochemistry in college, I was nervous about it. Until I found this curriculum. It's all laid out for me and I'm sure I'm going to be loving biology by the time we get done.
Of course next year we are doing chemistry because it's my turn!
Typing
My oldest is going to use Typing Web this year. I like that it's free because I don't think she needs a whole lot, she already types. But she wanted a formal typing lesson, and who am I to argue?
Art
I am not artistic. I will do watercolor painting because it's relaxing and perfect for stress relief but I'm just not artistic. My kids are, which makes for an interesting combination.
Aside from letting them create masterpieces; we are going to study some artists; and expose them to good art with field trips. I enjoy museums so we go as often as time and funds allow.
Handwriting/Copywork
We are continuing copywork this year. Aside from using literature excerpts and exposing the kids to good writing, we need to get in the habit of writing before we begin cursive writing next semester. We haven't chosen a curriculum for cursive yet though.
Aside from all of this, two are continuing with their piano lessons, the other with his Han Mu Do (Korean Martial Arts); and my girl is still taking dance lessons. We are also doing soccer (one of the boys), and hopefully tennis. They also want to run 5k so my running shoes will be getting some mileage this fall.
I feel a lot more relaxed this year compared to last. I guess it's in part because I know what to expect. Also because we are going to homeschool year round so I don't feel like I have to accomplish everything in a short amount of time (as I felt last year).
Here is to a great new year!
Thursday, July 31, 2014
Things I've discovered after a year of homeschooling
Summer flew by and school is about to start once again. We are no longer "new" to homeschooling, our first year is behind us. So I thought I would list the things I have learned and encountered in the last year or so; about myself, my kids, and everyone else we know.
1) Homeschooling is NOT easy.
Some people believe homeschooling families choose this path out of laziness. The thought is laughable at best. All your household chores are still there, and now you have your child's education to focus on. You may never catch up with your sleep, your laundry, or the rest of the chores. There are field trips to be taken, lessons to be covered, and guess what? There are no sick days.
Kids don't play video games all day; and eat junk food while you watch soap operas. That's a myth.
2) Kids dread the first day of school, even those who are homeschooled.
This is a sentiment I cannot relate to because I loved school. Literally. I was the kid who could not sleep the night before due to the excitement. It wasn't about seeing my friends again; it was all about what I was going to learn.
I have heard my kids say "ugh, I'm not ready to start school again". They sound like any of the regular school kids, don't they? You know why they feel that way? See #1 above.
3) Just because you homeschool in your PJs, doesn't mean you are lazy or unable to function in the "normal" world.
Forgive me for a second here, because I'm about to vent and the following is MY personal opinion. You don't have to agree with it; but you don't get to badger me about it either.
On most days, the kids will do their work in their PJs. We are in our house and I don't want any more laundry than a household of 5 can produce. I don't make them get up and change clothes in order to do school work because we are NOT recreating school at home; we are homeschooling. There is a huge difference. If they want to change clothes, fine. If they don't, that's fine too.
My children function just fine in the "real world". The fact they do their work in their PJs doesn't hinder them from joining the "real" world. When it's time to join the rest of the human population, my kids know to dress appropriately. They understand that PJs are not acceptable attire for church, piano lessons, or museum trips.
I am still trying to figure out why anyone would think the attire you wear while doing schoolwork makes you a "better functioning" human. I see plenty of people dressed in professional attire every day who can't function in normal society. I rest my case.
4) How do I know what to teach, and how do I know my kids are learning?
Well how did I know that they were learning while in regular school? Truthfully, some things they weren't learning. They memorized it for a test; and it was out of their mind once the test was done. I know they are learning because my kids have taught my husband and I more about animals in the last year than we even realized they knew; just from watching educational shows about it. They have read more encyclopedias than most people do in a lifetime. They have a need to tell me all about something they read in a book at the library; and they are excited about exploring the backyard and looking for "new" species of bugs. That's how I know they are learning.
As to what to teach, how did I know my kids were learning what they were supposed to learn while in school? I honestly didn't, I just trusted the school. Well, I follow the same guidelines the schools do to make sure they learn what they need. Simple as that.
5) People from the "good school districts", who live in the nice subdivisions, homeschool too.
Most people know I live in a very crappy school district. My kids attended private school for a long time; and we now homeschool them. I hear often how I need to move to x,y,z town because the school is better; and you guessed it, the kids can go to school there.
Turns out there are families who live in the elite school districts who homeschool. So I am ok staying in the crappy district and homeschooling too.
6) All kids are not created equal.
Well duh. Everyone knows that, right? I knew my kids were different from each other from day one. What I didn't realize was how differently they learn. They process information in a way unique to them. While textbooks and worksheets work for one, the other needs a more auditory/visual environment. I don't force them to sit still at a table while we do school. Yes there are things that have to be done while sitting down, like writing for example. But they don't sit through every single lesson. Some lessons are on the computer, science experiments may take you outside into the woods or into the kitchen.
7) Dads can homeschool too
Here is a big one for us. When we made the decision to homeschool; the very first question people had was "are you going to quit your job?". Imagine the shock when I said no.
You don't have to stop working to homeschool, there are plenty of moms who work from home and outside the home who do it. I'm one of the lucky ones who has a husband who is willing to do most of the schooling while I'm in the office.
Most people seem shocked, some ask if I double check after him to make sure the kids are learning. When did we decide men can't teach? There are plenty of male teachers in schools right now; and all my professors in engineering school were males. So why the double standards?
8) Everyone is an expert about what you should be doing; specially those who have never homeschooled.
Everyone. I've been told what curriculum I should use, how I should teach; etc. By people who have never done it.
9) Everyone has a horror story about someone who homeschooled and did a horrible job.
I don't know every homeschooling family in the world. The ones I know are committed to providing the best education for their kids. Period. I'm sure there are lazy people out there who use the term homeschooling to allow the kids to run wild while they watch soap operas. And if you come across one of them, report them. That's not homeschooling. I'm not entirely sure what's the point of those stories.
10) I have my kids' best interest at heart.
Don't assume that I don't care about the future my kids will have because I homeschool. That's the reason I do it; because I want the best for them.
I know plenty of graduates from "good" schools who have done zero with their lives. Going to a regular school doesn't guarantee success in college or anywhere else.
Homeschooling is a journey. You will come across people who will support you and some who will do what they can to put you down. Just remind yourself of the reasons you made the decision and keep going.
Besides, why worry about what people say? You were made to be different.
1) Homeschooling is NOT easy.
Some people believe homeschooling families choose this path out of laziness. The thought is laughable at best. All your household chores are still there, and now you have your child's education to focus on. You may never catch up with your sleep, your laundry, or the rest of the chores. There are field trips to be taken, lessons to be covered, and guess what? There are no sick days.
Kids don't play video games all day; and eat junk food while you watch soap operas. That's a myth.
2) Kids dread the first day of school, even those who are homeschooled.
This is a sentiment I cannot relate to because I loved school. Literally. I was the kid who could not sleep the night before due to the excitement. It wasn't about seeing my friends again; it was all about what I was going to learn.
I have heard my kids say "ugh, I'm not ready to start school again". They sound like any of the regular school kids, don't they? You know why they feel that way? See #1 above.
3) Just because you homeschool in your PJs, doesn't mean you are lazy or unable to function in the "normal" world.
Forgive me for a second here, because I'm about to vent and the following is MY personal opinion. You don't have to agree with it; but you don't get to badger me about it either.
On most days, the kids will do their work in their PJs. We are in our house and I don't want any more laundry than a household of 5 can produce. I don't make them get up and change clothes in order to do school work because we are NOT recreating school at home; we are homeschooling. There is a huge difference. If they want to change clothes, fine. If they don't, that's fine too.
My children function just fine in the "real world". The fact they do their work in their PJs doesn't hinder them from joining the "real" world. When it's time to join the rest of the human population, my kids know to dress appropriately. They understand that PJs are not acceptable attire for church, piano lessons, or museum trips.
I am still trying to figure out why anyone would think the attire you wear while doing schoolwork makes you a "better functioning" human. I see plenty of people dressed in professional attire every day who can't function in normal society. I rest my case.
4) How do I know what to teach, and how do I know my kids are learning?
Well how did I know that they were learning while in regular school? Truthfully, some things they weren't learning. They memorized it for a test; and it was out of their mind once the test was done. I know they are learning because my kids have taught my husband and I more about animals in the last year than we even realized they knew; just from watching educational shows about it. They have read more encyclopedias than most people do in a lifetime. They have a need to tell me all about something they read in a book at the library; and they are excited about exploring the backyard and looking for "new" species of bugs. That's how I know they are learning.
As to what to teach, how did I know my kids were learning what they were supposed to learn while in school? I honestly didn't, I just trusted the school. Well, I follow the same guidelines the schools do to make sure they learn what they need. Simple as that.
5) People from the "good school districts", who live in the nice subdivisions, homeschool too.
Most people know I live in a very crappy school district. My kids attended private school for a long time; and we now homeschool them. I hear often how I need to move to x,y,z town because the school is better; and you guessed it, the kids can go to school there.
Turns out there are families who live in the elite school districts who homeschool. So I am ok staying in the crappy district and homeschooling too.
6) All kids are not created equal.
Well duh. Everyone knows that, right? I knew my kids were different from each other from day one. What I didn't realize was how differently they learn. They process information in a way unique to them. While textbooks and worksheets work for one, the other needs a more auditory/visual environment. I don't force them to sit still at a table while we do school. Yes there are things that have to be done while sitting down, like writing for example. But they don't sit through every single lesson. Some lessons are on the computer, science experiments may take you outside into the woods or into the kitchen.
7) Dads can homeschool too
Here is a big one for us. When we made the decision to homeschool; the very first question people had was "are you going to quit your job?". Imagine the shock when I said no.
You don't have to stop working to homeschool, there are plenty of moms who work from home and outside the home who do it. I'm one of the lucky ones who has a husband who is willing to do most of the schooling while I'm in the office.
Most people seem shocked, some ask if I double check after him to make sure the kids are learning. When did we decide men can't teach? There are plenty of male teachers in schools right now; and all my professors in engineering school were males. So why the double standards?
8) Everyone is an expert about what you should be doing; specially those who have never homeschooled.
Everyone. I've been told what curriculum I should use, how I should teach; etc. By people who have never done it.
9) Everyone has a horror story about someone who homeschooled and did a horrible job.
I don't know every homeschooling family in the world. The ones I know are committed to providing the best education for their kids. Period. I'm sure there are lazy people out there who use the term homeschooling to allow the kids to run wild while they watch soap operas. And if you come across one of them, report them. That's not homeschooling. I'm not entirely sure what's the point of those stories.
10) I have my kids' best interest at heart.
Don't assume that I don't care about the future my kids will have because I homeschool. That's the reason I do it; because I want the best for them.
I know plenty of graduates from "good" schools who have done zero with their lives. Going to a regular school doesn't guarantee success in college or anywhere else.
Homeschooling is a journey. You will come across people who will support you and some who will do what they can to put you down. Just remind yourself of the reasons you made the decision and keep going.
Besides, why worry about what people say? You were made to be different.
Monday, July 7, 2014
4 miles? No problem. That one time I thought I was a Kenyan
Once upon a time, I was a runner. I laced up my shoes early every morning and logged in my miles; and I even trained for a marathon.
Then last week I decided it was time to get back to racing and signed up for a 4 mile race. Piece of cake, right? I mean, I have logged up to 30+ miles per week; how hard can 4 miles be?
What I seemed to have forgotten is that I had not run in a YEAR. That's right. A WHOLE YEAR. And those 30+ miles per week were logged 7 years ago.
Somewhere inside this crazy brain, I convinced myself that I was part Kenyan; and since my body has logged that many miles before, it would remember how to do 4 miles easily. Insane idea? Absolutely.
I signed up for the race; and told myself even if I didn't finish, the fee went to a worthy cause. Besides getting on my elliptical machine at home; and taking the stairs at work; I have done no other form of exercise in a whole year. I know what you are thinking. She is either crazy; or she certifiably insane.
I got up early on July 4th and headed out to meet destiny. I had one goal: to finish. I didn't care if I was slower than "a stampede of turtles running through peanut butter" (Gotta love that phrase!); I was determined to finish all 4 miles. Pace was simply not important, just survival.
So the race began. First half mile and my legs were burning and my shins hurting. I know the feeling all too well since this is what it feels like every time I get on the elliptical so I pressed on. I got this, that's what I told myself.
Then I came to the first hill of many and became certain I was either going to die; or going to hurt for a while. Who knew there were these many hills in our town? I certainly didn't.
First mile was over; and I had gone uphill twice. Someone was playing a practical joke on me; this was supposed to be an easy 'get back to running' race!
Mile 2 took me to the lake in town. Nice setting; how can you not enjoy running around such a placid place? Let me tell you how: HILLS. All around the lake. At this point, I'm considering calling it quits, calling my husband to come get me, and doing the walk of shame out of there.
This was the point where I began to talk to myself. Part was motivational, the other half was "what the heck were you thinking, you crazy woman" speech. I reminded myself of all things I had accomplished in life, including surviving twins; so this was a piece of cake, right?
The struggle continued in my head and soon I had made it to Mile 3. Can't quit now, I told myself. You just have one mile left. Quitting now would really be embarrassing. That was until I realized this last mile would be UPHILL. Who designed this course? Someone who was trying to make a quitter out of me? I was not quitting, I told myself. I was finishing even if they had to pick me off the ground at the finish line!
Then I saw the most beautiful sight closer to the finish line, my husband and kids cheering me on. I smiled, almost cried, and kept on because I really couldn't quit now that they were watching, right?
In the end, I finished all 4 miles, and my time was better than I had anticipated. I crossed the finish line, found my car, and headed home before I got stiff and couldn't drive. ha!
I learned a few lessons that day. Sometimes you can't prepare for what life brings. All you have is willpower; and the desire to overcome your obstacles. Keep your eyes on the prize and keep on going. If you are believer, as I am, then you pray for the endurance to finish the race laid out before you. As I did.
Now I'm ready for the next race. Because apparently the insanity stayed, even after the sore muscles. I'm ready to run again!
Then last week I decided it was time to get back to racing and signed up for a 4 mile race. Piece of cake, right? I mean, I have logged up to 30+ miles per week; how hard can 4 miles be?
What I seemed to have forgotten is that I had not run in a YEAR. That's right. A WHOLE YEAR. And those 30+ miles per week were logged 7 years ago.
Somewhere inside this crazy brain, I convinced myself that I was part Kenyan; and since my body has logged that many miles before, it would remember how to do 4 miles easily. Insane idea? Absolutely.
I signed up for the race; and told myself even if I didn't finish, the fee went to a worthy cause. Besides getting on my elliptical machine at home; and taking the stairs at work; I have done no other form of exercise in a whole year. I know what you are thinking. She is either crazy; or she certifiably insane.
I got up early on July 4th and headed out to meet destiny. I had one goal: to finish. I didn't care if I was slower than "a stampede of turtles running through peanut butter" (Gotta love that phrase!); I was determined to finish all 4 miles. Pace was simply not important, just survival.
So the race began. First half mile and my legs were burning and my shins hurting. I know the feeling all too well since this is what it feels like every time I get on the elliptical so I pressed on. I got this, that's what I told myself.
Then I came to the first hill of many and became certain I was either going to die; or going to hurt for a while. Who knew there were these many hills in our town? I certainly didn't.
First mile was over; and I had gone uphill twice. Someone was playing a practical joke on me; this was supposed to be an easy 'get back to running' race!
Mile 2 took me to the lake in town. Nice setting; how can you not enjoy running around such a placid place? Let me tell you how: HILLS. All around the lake. At this point, I'm considering calling it quits, calling my husband to come get me, and doing the walk of shame out of there.
This was the point where I began to talk to myself. Part was motivational, the other half was "what the heck were you thinking, you crazy woman" speech. I reminded myself of all things I had accomplished in life, including surviving twins; so this was a piece of cake, right?
The struggle continued in my head and soon I had made it to Mile 3. Can't quit now, I told myself. You just have one mile left. Quitting now would really be embarrassing. That was until I realized this last mile would be UPHILL. Who designed this course? Someone who was trying to make a quitter out of me? I was not quitting, I told myself. I was finishing even if they had to pick me off the ground at the finish line!
Then I saw the most beautiful sight closer to the finish line, my husband and kids cheering me on. I smiled, almost cried, and kept on because I really couldn't quit now that they were watching, right?
In the end, I finished all 4 miles, and my time was better than I had anticipated. I crossed the finish line, found my car, and headed home before I got stiff and couldn't drive. ha!
I learned a few lessons that day. Sometimes you can't prepare for what life brings. All you have is willpower; and the desire to overcome your obstacles. Keep your eyes on the prize and keep on going. If you are believer, as I am, then you pray for the endurance to finish the race laid out before you. As I did.
Now I'm ready for the next race. Because apparently the insanity stayed, even after the sore muscles. I'm ready to run again!
Monday, April 28, 2014
Mama said there be days like this...
Ever had one of those days when you feel you got it all under control : the laundry, housework, homeschool, work? Yeah, me either.
Just when I start to think "I've got this", that nagging voice creeps into my head and it says "no you don't!. You haven't (insert whatever I haven't done here).
Today was a state holiday so I didn't have to work. I've been home playing catch up with the laundry all day. I've lost count of how many loads I've managed to fold and put away. The size of the mountain has finally been reduced to a molehill.
A few months ago, I started reading about Charlotte Mason and her philosophy on educating the kids. I hadn't implemented anything yet, because I've been preoccupied with "finishing" the year. I'm not sure why I'm doing this to myself, when we have decided to do year round homeschooling. Maybe because I'm trying to drive myself crazy.
Anyway, back to CM and her philosophies. I've also been looking for a writing curriculum/program to get my oldest to write. I looked into Brave Writer and have started reading The Writer's Jungle . Today we started incorporating some of the things in the first chapters. I really like this book, because it nurtures the kids' natural desire to tell their stories.
So we did copywork today. Basically the kids get to copy paragraphs from real books, not textbooks. One is copying form 2,000 leagues under the sea; the other is copying from Robinson Crusoe; and the oldest is doing copywork from my one of my favorite books To Kill a Mockingbird.
It's a small step in the journey but it's a step. I was glad there was no complaining about doing this work! I'm going to assign reading from the same books; so they can start picking out the paragraph they want to copy.
We had plenty of whining when it was time for math. Why can't they do math without complaining? Must their torture their engineer mother like this? We got thru that with a few more gray hairs (mine) and tears (theirs).
Then I sent them outside to observe nature and writer about it in their nature journal. I was pleasantly surprised to see how much they wanted to write. I think we will definitely do this as often as the weather permits.
In history we are learning about India and the beginning of Hinduism. I have to admit, this really brings me back to my childhood. My father had books about Hinduism around the house and I recall reading about it as a kid. We discussed their main gods; watched a video and then talked about Ganesha (god of success, destroyer of obstacles) which I have tattooed on my leg; and also about Indra (king of the gods) because my youngest sister bears its name.
Still need to finish the workboxes; still need to put together the boys' science lesson plans for next year; get the Spanish curriculum, etc, etc, etc.
Thankful for a day at home to spend with the kids though; talking to them about some of the things I learned as kid.
Just when I start to think "I've got this", that nagging voice creeps into my head and it says "no you don't!. You haven't (insert whatever I haven't done here).
Today was a state holiday so I didn't have to work. I've been home playing catch up with the laundry all day. I've lost count of how many loads I've managed to fold and put away. The size of the mountain has finally been reduced to a molehill.
A few months ago, I started reading about Charlotte Mason and her philosophy on educating the kids. I hadn't implemented anything yet, because I've been preoccupied with "finishing" the year. I'm not sure why I'm doing this to myself, when we have decided to do year round homeschooling. Maybe because I'm trying to drive myself crazy.
Anyway, back to CM and her philosophies. I've also been looking for a writing curriculum/program to get my oldest to write. I looked into Brave Writer and have started reading The Writer's Jungle . Today we started incorporating some of the things in the first chapters. I really like this book, because it nurtures the kids' natural desire to tell their stories.
So we did copywork today. Basically the kids get to copy paragraphs from real books, not textbooks. One is copying form 2,000 leagues under the sea; the other is copying from Robinson Crusoe; and the oldest is doing copywork from my one of my favorite books To Kill a Mockingbird.
It's a small step in the journey but it's a step. I was glad there was no complaining about doing this work! I'm going to assign reading from the same books; so they can start picking out the paragraph they want to copy.
We had plenty of whining when it was time for math. Why can't they do math without complaining? Must their torture their engineer mother like this? We got thru that with a few more gray hairs (mine) and tears (theirs).
Then I sent them outside to observe nature and writer about it in their nature journal. I was pleasantly surprised to see how much they wanted to write. I think we will definitely do this as often as the weather permits.
In history we are learning about India and the beginning of Hinduism. I have to admit, this really brings me back to my childhood. My father had books about Hinduism around the house and I recall reading about it as a kid. We discussed their main gods; watched a video and then talked about Ganesha (god of success, destroyer of obstacles) which I have tattooed on my leg; and also about Indra (king of the gods) because my youngest sister bears its name.
Still need to finish the workboxes; still need to put together the boys' science lesson plans for next year; get the Spanish curriculum, etc, etc, etc.
Thankful for a day at home to spend with the kids though; talking to them about some of the things I learned as kid.
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